Harder—
* "I often wish some men/women would appreciate"
+* empathic inference: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NLMo5FZWFFq652MNe/sympathetic-minds https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/Zkzzjg3h7hW5Z36hK/humans-in-funny-suits
* "The Opposite Sex" (memoryholed, but there should be an archive)
* EY was right about "men need to think about themselves _as men_" (find cite)
* wipe culturally defined values
"the love of a man for a woman, and the love of a woman for a man, have not been cognitively derived from each other or from any other value."
-https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NnohDYHNnKDtbiMyp/fake-utility-functions
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+https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NnohDYHNnKDtbiMyp/fake-utility-functions
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+"It is said that parents do all the things they tell their children not to do, which is how they know not to do them." https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/DwtYPRuCxpXTrzG9m/my-wild-and-reckless-youth
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+"don't ask me how I know this, and I won't tell you" https://www.greaterwrong.com/posts/AeBfaMZt7e7ye38Hw/open-thread-november-1-15-2012#comment-ib37xYqDnJgxE285R