Harder—
* "I often wish some men/women would appreciate"
-* empathic inference: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NLMo5FZWFFq652MNe/sympathetic-minds
+* empathic inference: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NLMo5FZWFFq652MNe/sympathetic-minds https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/Zkzzjg3h7hW5Z36hK/humans-in-funny-suits
* "The Opposite Sex" (memoryholed, but there should be an archive)
* EY was right about "men need to think about themselves _as men_" (find cite)
* wipe culturally defined values