-Title: Codes of Conflict; Or, Smile More (working title)
+Title: Codes of Convergence; Or, Smile More (working title)
Date: 2020-01-01
Category: commentary
Tags: discourse, software industry, anecdotal
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> —["Your Racist Friend"](https://genius.com/4498157) by They Might Be Giants
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It is humbling to contemplate the possibility that the only reason I haven't suffered any consequences for my writing is simply because I'm _not important enough_ to be a target—in either direction. (That is: no one hates this blog enough to bother reversing the pseudonym and making trouble for me in real life, and, conversely, my open-source and professional work isn't notable enough for anyone to bother digging to see if I have a secret gender-heresy blog.)
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Curtis Yarvin
Rod Vagg linked to Quillette
Opal guy said trans people are delusional
https://quillette.com/2018/06/19/why-women-dont-code/
https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/bbc-to-identify-haters-within-lgbt-allies/
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9qaqik/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_october_22/e89kb23/
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+https://www.gnu.org/philosophy/kind-communication.html
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+https://www.theregister.co.uk/2018/10/22/sqlite_code_of_conduct/
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+implicit marketing and context collapse
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+http://reason.com/blog/2017/04/18/drupal-developer-ousted-over-kink#slide1
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+https://medium.com/@marlene.jaeckel/the-empress-has-no-clothes-the-dark-underbelly-of-women-who-code-and-google-women-techmakers-723be27a45df