X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?a=blobdiff_plain;f=content%2F2016%2Fchromatic-key.md;fp=content%2F2016%2Fchromatic-key.md;h=b8217dc726110705e77c2dd154ec83c6d71541be;hb=679308988f8124593259617d7daed0a9593e642d;hp=0000000000000000000000000000000000000000;hpb=b2be2008fd81bd4ce55efdecd7a0139c18f007fb;p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git diff --git a/content/2016/chromatic-key.md b/content/2016/chromatic-key.md new file mode 100644 index 0000000..b8217dc --- /dev/null +++ b/content/2016/chromatic-key.md @@ -0,0 +1,10 @@ +Title: Chromatic Key +Date: 2016-11-22 07:33 +Category: commentary +Tags: two-type taxonomy, anecdotal + +I had occasion to sing a little song at a party recently, whereupon a trans woman who was present—let's call her "Deborah"—immediately asked if I was gay. (I'm not.) When talking with her later, mentioning that our mutual friend had been trying to convince me that I was trans (which kind of backfired, incidentally, but that's another story), she stressed that anyone who sung like me had to be either gay or a trans woman. + +Later, another friend who had been present for the latter exchange and I agreed that this was bizarre—like, that's not what those words mean! Gay men are men who are attracted to men; trans women were males who decided to transition. I'm a man who's attracted to women, which is not either of those things! Deciding that I must be one of those things based on how I sing is wholly unwarranted! + +But _we were wrong_ and _Deborah was right_. People on the androphilic MtF spectrum tend to have naturally feminine vocal mannerisms; people on the autogynephilic spectrum have a natural incentive to fake it. (And I _do_ fake it.) With neither the inclination nor the incentive, normal straight men _don't sing like me_, and Deborah was _exactly right_ to pick up on this, even if I think her ontology is ultimately flawed.