X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?a=blobdiff_plain;f=content%2F2017%2Fa-leaf-in-the-crosswind.md;h=006b9cbfca2cc492de21001b45f319567cd2c757;hb=06de2f2c70aea339bd1c023677ff8a7e81617482;hp=503a5cb9cb859e3940be4aed7c84bb8e68b89b32;hpb=7ad7511d67f9c7342974c0bf8649d842d049b8cf;p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git diff --git a/content/2017/a-leaf-in-the-crosswind.md b/content/2017/a-leaf-in-the-crosswind.md index 503a5cb..006b9cb 100644 --- a/content/2017/a-leaf-in-the-crosswind.md +++ b/content/2017/a-leaf-in-the-crosswind.md @@ -1,7 +1,7 @@ Title: A Leaf in the Crosswind Date: 2017-10-27 23:47 Category: other -Tags: Avatar, cosplay +Tags: anecdotal, Avatar, cosplay I cosplayed as [Korra](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Korra) (from _The Legend of Korra_, sequel series to _Avatar: The Last Airbender_—see [also previously](/2017/Jan/avatar-the-last-genderbender/)) at—let's call it "Republic City" Comic-Con the other month. Saturday only—conventions are just my excuse to crossdress in public; I don't actually perceive two and a half days' worth of things to do. @@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ I guess I could have gone as Asami. I even endorse [one Tumblr user's headcanon While waiting in line at a coffeeshop before the con, a woman complemented me on my lipstick and asked me what color it was, although I didn't remember (760 "Gone Griege", for the record). I was _beaming_. -I can imagine an actual aspiring trans woman receiving such a comment, and [interpreting it as confirmation](http://upandoutcomic.tumblr.com/post/166474292641/a-nice-lil-observation-if-you-enjoy-my-work) that she passes, complementing each other on their appearance just being something that women do. I had no such delusions; the woman was humoring me, commenting in a spirit of communal good cheer surrounding a special event (rather than because she was actually curious about the lipstick color). It was nice. +I can imagine an actual aspiring trans woman receiving such a comment, and [interpreting it as confirmation](http://upandoutcomic.tumblr.com/post/166474292641/a-nice-lil-observation-if-you-enjoy-my-work) that she passes, complementing each other on their appearance just being something that women do. I had no such delusions; the woman was clearly humoring me, commenting in a spirit of communal good cheer surrounding a special event (rather than because she was actually curious about the lipstick color). It was nice. The booth for signing up for the afternoon cosplay competition also offered signup for a speed-dating event later in the evening, an opportunity which I siezed eagerly. The staffer asked me if I wanted to sign up for a men's slot, or for the unsegregated "queer" session afterwards. I opted for the former ("Despite everything," I said).