X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?a=blobdiff_plain;f=content%2Fdrafts%2Fchromatic-key.md;h=74e903435c601fa151c45440c34a34561294be3d;hb=b2be2008fd81bd4ce55efdecd7a0139c18f007fb;hp=ca881433e611c70b0227137a5770fb8eaab86760;hpb=93e2b6192908a158f673afc4778c12e1e1a513e6;p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git diff --git a/content/drafts/chromatic-key.md b/content/drafts/chromatic-key.md index ca88143..74e9034 100644 --- a/content/drafts/chromatic-key.md +++ b/content/drafts/chromatic-key.md @@ -1,8 +1,11 @@ Title: Chromatic Key Date: 2016-10-01 22:30 Category: commentary -Tags: autogynephilia +Tags: two-type taxonomy +Status: draft -I had occasion to sing a little song at a party recently, whereupon a trans woman who was present immediately asked if I was gay. (I'm not.) When talking with her later (mentioning that our mutual friend had been trying to convince me that I was trans—which kind of backfired, incidentally,) +I had occasion to sing a little song at a party recently, whereupon a trans woman who was present—let's call her "Deborah"—immediately asked if I was gay. (I'm not.) When talking with her later, mentioning that our mutual friend had been trying to convince me that I was trans (which kind of backfired, incidentally, but that's another story), she stressed that anyone who sung like me had to be either gay or a trans woman. -People on the androphilic MtF spectrum tend to have naturally feminine vocal mannerisms; people on the autogynephilic spectrum have a natrual incentive to fake it. (And I _do_ fake it.) With neither the inclination nor the incentive, normal straight men _don't sing like me_, and \ No newline at end of file +Later, another friend who had been present for the latter exchange and I agreed that this was bizarre—like, that's not what those words mean! Gay men are men who are attracted to men; trans women were males who decided to transition. I'm a man who's attracted to women, which is not either of those things! Deciding that I must be one of those things based on how I sing is wholly unwarranted! + +But _we were wrong_ and _Deborah was right_. People on the androphilic MtF spectrum tend to have naturally feminine vocal mannerisms; people on the autogynephilic spectrum have a natural incentive to fake it. (And I _do_ fake it.) With neither the inclination nor the incentive, normal straight men _don't sing like me_, and Deborah was _exactly right_ to pick up on this, even if I think her ontology is ultimately flawed.