X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?a=blobdiff_plain;f=content%2Fdrafts%2Fpromises-i-can-keep.md;fp=content%2Fdrafts%2Fpromises-i-can-keep.md;h=0000000000000000000000000000000000000000;hb=8d4077e194fbf6b5319d64a3d8e6309e7ec2dda2;hp=823c15f0f6b051da4dc188afa9bf4151a3078099;hpb=6ae30ef74db51de541b5febfc4ce2856ef371a35;p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git diff --git a/content/drafts/promises-i-can-keep.md b/content/drafts/promises-i-can-keep.md deleted file mode 100644 index 823c15f..0000000 --- a/content/drafts/promises-i-can-keep.md +++ /dev/null @@ -1,13 +0,0 @@ -Title: Promises I Can Keep -Date: 2020-01-01 -Category: other -Tags: romance -Status: draft - -"I think if you show any indications of being an egg, you _need_ to marry someone who's OK with you eventually transitioning. Not because you necessarily _will_ want to transition, but because it's likely enough that you need to plan for it." - -"I probably don't actually _disagree_. Keeping promises is very important. What a betrayal it would be—to take someone to have and to hold, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health—only to [throw it all away when the cost curve moves](/2017/Dec/lesser-known-demand-curves/)? No. But in the spirit of [policy debates not appearing one-sided](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/PeSzc9JTBxhaYRp9b/policy-debates-should-not-appear-one-sided), I would like to register a note of sadness that we're effectively thereby saying 'eggs don't deserve love.'" - -"Eggs can have love, they just add a constraint." - -"I don't think you understand [the seriousness of 'just' adding a constraint](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/xqJqZgowy5pPxNNst/inconvenience-is-qualitatively-bad) to a search problem that is [already very constrained](/2017/Oct/select/). Constraint: must own unicorn."