You have some latitude because you have a pony tail and don't come off as a dudebro, so this makes you look ingroup and non-threatening
However, watch out for the zeitgeist shifting to where those signifiers might not be enough in the next few years to get away with as much
I also kind of have breasts?? Does that help???
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+https://www.kesq.com/news/female-water-polo-players-confronted-by-naked-man-at-palm-springs-swim-center/987276858
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+woman wanted roller derby as women's space: https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/9zgivf/peak_trans_viii_tell_your_story_here/eesm1d7/
-Laser 12
-Social Strategy Notes, late January 2019
The Social Construction of Reality and the Sheer Goddamned
Dragon in Garage
+Names and Genders Are Not Relevantly Analogous
Willie McCovington
A Human's Abridged Guide to Gender Words
Phenotypic Identity and Memetic Capture
One-Way Trolls
+Operationalization of Bad Faith: if people make reasoning errors that they wouldn't make with another topic having the same underlying structure
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+Nuance and Compression: there's a problem where if what you actually believe is extremely nuanced, and in some contexts you say something shorter and "punchier", people will ever-so-slightly misinterpret the punchier version and say, "Ah-ha!" like, I'm not _intending_ to motte-and-bailey, but _something_ has to get lost between the 5000-word nuanced version and the version that fits in a Tweet, and I'm sorry that the Tweet version is bailey-like
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+butterflies
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the thing to deny
+Laser 13
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+a big essay about Batesian mimickry
_ High-Dimensional Social Science and the Conjunction of Small Effect Sizes
_ Codes of Convergence; Or, Smile More