content/drafts/but-im-not-quite-sure-what-that-means-costs-of-nonbinary-gender-as-a-social-technology.md

   1 Title: "But I'm Not Quite Sure What That Means": Costs of Nonbinary Gender as a Social Technology
   2 Date: 2020-01-01
   3 Category: commentary
   4 Tags: epistemology, nonbinary, social technology
   5 Status: draft
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   7 > _Eight o'clock, Monday night, and I'm waiting
   8 > To finally talk to a girl a little cooler than me
   9 > Her name is Nona; she's a rocker with a nose ring
  10 > She's AFAB enby but I'm not quite sure what that means_
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  12 > —["Girl All the Bad Guys Want"](https://genius.com/Bowling-for-soup-girl-all-the-bad-guys-want-lyrics) by Bowling for Soup (paraphrased)
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