4 > "My dear, let us hope it is not true; but, if it is true, let us hope it will not become generally known."
6 > —[probably apocryphal](http://quoteinvestigator.com/2011/02/09/darwinism-hope-pray/) reaction to Darwin's theory of natural selection
8 (This is Worth a Fight?)
9 > "—but if one hundred thousand straights can turn up, to show their support for the gay community, why can't you?"
11 > I said wearily, "Because every time I hear the word _community_, I know I'm being manipulated. If there is such a thing as _the gay community_, I'm certainly not a part of it. As it happens, I don't want to spend my life watching _gay and lesbian_ television channels, using _gay and lesbian_ new systems ... or going to _gay and lesbian_ street parades. It's all so ... proprietary. You'd think there was a multinational corporation who had the franchise rights on homosexuality. And if you don't _market the product_ their way, you're some kind of second-class, inferior, bootleg, unauthorized queer."
13 > —"Cocoon" by Greg Egan
15 > What is the most beautiful in virile men is something feminine; what is most beautiful in feminine women is something masculine.
19 > I knew the mass of men conceal'd
20 > Their thoughts, for fear that if reveal'd
21 > They would by other men be met
22 > With blank indifference, or with blame reprov'd;
23 > I knew they liv'd and mov'd
24 > Trick'd in disguises, alien to the rest
25 > Of men, and alien to themselves—and yet
26 > The same heart beats in every human breast!
28 > "The Buried Life" by Matthew Arnold
30 > All should be laid open to you without reserve, for there is not a truth existing which I fear, or would wish unknown to the whole world
34 > Ultimately every examined life can be interpreted as a disaster; looking closely enough we can always discover psychological and social forces that provide fuel for unlimited rage. [...] But no life can transcend its own disasters unless it celebrates its uniqueness and contributes that which only it can contribute. Life is perverted if one is constantly reacting, never initiating, but always allowing rage to define it.
36 > —Steven Goldberg, _Why Men Rule: A Theory of Male Dominance_
38 quote that _Blindsight_ passage about an evil god setting males and females against each other
42 (Simple Models Plus Noise Are Better ...)
43 > The study of psychology is a violation of my privacy.
45 > —[@InstanceOfClass](https://twitter.com/InstanceOfClass/status/296450595420778497)
47 (response to hate mail)
48 > And believe me I am still alive
49 > I'm doing science and I'm still alive
50 > I feel fantastic and I'm still alive
51 > While you're dying I'll be still alive
52 > And when you're dead I will be still alive
54 > —_Portal_ end credits song
56 (Collective Guilt, Collective Shame)
57 > "My taxon, right or wrong; if right, to be kept right; and if wrong, to be set right."
59 > —Carl Shurz (paraphrased)
61 (Blanchard's Dangerous Idea)
62 > If you could only know
65 > —[_Steven Universe_ extended theme](https://youtu.be/H23rpzOAIzQ?t=48s)
67 (sex differences are the right thing to deny)
68 > Some mommies are ranchers, or poetry makers
69 > Or doctors or teachers, or cleaners or bakers
70 > Some mommies drive taxis, or sing on TV
71 > Yeah, mommies can be almost anything they want to be!
73 > (Well, they can't be grandfathers
76 > —"Parents Are People", _Free to Be You and Me_
78 (The Gender Czar's Compromise)
79 > Should array indices start at 0 or 1? My compromise of 0.5 was rejected without, I thought, proper consideration.
83 (critiquing Julia Serano on trans being natural)
84 > Because it's going to be the future soon
85 > And I won't always be this way
86 > When the things that make me weak and strange
89 > —"The Future Soon" by Jonathan Coulton
91 (how long can the lie endure?? what happens when it all falls down?)
92 > It's time to put an end to this deception
94 > When the whole thing is at an end
95 > And you learn that it's just pretend
96 > You'll cry "Deception"
100 > Ooh-bi-doo, I wanna be like you
101 > I want to walk like you, talk like you, too
102 > You see it's true, an ape like me
103 > Can learn to be like you, too
105 > —"I Wanna Be Like You", _The Jungle Book_
108 Moliere on "dormative virtue"
110 (Blanchard's Dangerous Idea)
112 > The man has only one look, for Christ's sake! Crossdresser, demigirl, trans woman? They're the _same people_!
114 > Doesn't anyone notice this? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
116 > —[_Zoolander_](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mbKBWtoH93Q) (paraphrased)
118 > Perhaps someday we [...] will be able to forthrightly acknowledge the paraphilic hand we were dealt and play that hand without equivocation or apology.
120 > —Anne Lawrence, _Men Trapped in Men's Bodies_
122 (The Hand I Was Dealt)
123 > Well this is the one that I had to write, it's like a
124 > A letter of love with no love left out
126 > —"Dying to Begin" by Stretch Princess
128 (The Hand I Was Dealt?)
129 > I'll write my way out
130 > Write everything down, far as I can see
131 > I'll write my way out
132 > Overwhelm them with honesty
133 > This is the eye of the hurricane
134 > This is the only way I can protect my legacy
136 > —"Hurricane", _Hamilton_
139 > The other side of me
140 > I'm just like anybody else, can't you tell
143 > The girl that I want you to know
144 > If only I could show
145 > The other side, the other side, the other side of me
147 > —"The Other Side of Me" by Hannah Montana
150 > I would be your girl
152 > —"The One That Got Away" by Katy Perry
154 > He once said, "None of the other Rationals I've ever met have anything but an empty-head for an Emotional. I'm lucky." She had said, "But the other Rationals seem to like empty-heads. Why are you different from them, Odeen?" Odeen did not deny that the other Rationals liked empty-heads. He just said, "I've never figured it out and I don't think it's important that I do. I'm pleased with you and I'm pleased that I'm pleased."
156 > —_The Gods Themselves_ by Isaac Asimov
160 Less obviously fitting—
162 > Knowing his occupation and observing him briefly and superficially were sufficient, together, for me to guess confidently about aspects of Edwin's life that he never mentioned. I know what he was like as a boy. I know what kind of person he is sexually attracted to. I know what kinds of activities interest him and what kinds do not. I am least sure what he will look like five years from now.
164 > —J. Michael Bailey, _The Man Who Would Be Queen: the Science of Gender-Bending and Transsexualism_, Preface
166 > I cannot believe my eyes
167 > How the world's filled with filth and lies
168 > But it's plain to see
172 > —"My Eyes", _Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog_
174 > "I will destroy you and steal your fiancé, booty booty booty booty rocking everywhere!"
176 > —[from](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AF2HCgzxMDA) _Friendship Is Witchcraft_, "Foaly Matripony"
178 > And there's a fine, fine line
179 > Between what you wanted
181 > You've got to go after the things you want
182 > While you're still in your prime
184 > —"There's a Fine, Fine Line", _Avenue Q_
186 > I know there's more that's out there
187 > And I just haven't found it yet
188 > I know there's more that's out there
189 > Another me I haven't met
191 > —"What More Is Out There", _My Little Pony Equestria Girls: Friendship Games_
193 > I don't give a damn about my reputation
194 > You're living in the past it's a new generation
195 > A girl can do what she wants to do
196 > And that's what I'm gonna do
198 > —"Bad Reputation" by Joan Jett
200 > "The Order of Silent Confessors exists in the hope that, so long as humanity is sane, it can make choices in accordance with its true desires. Thus there is our Order dedicated _only_ to that, and sworn not to interfere in politics. So you will spend more time discussing this scenario, my lords, my ladies, and only then generate solutions. And then ... you will decide."
202 > —[_Three Worlds Collide_](http://lesswrong.com/lw/y6/war_andor_peace_28/) by Eliezer Yudkowsky
204 > The realization blasted through Harry like a vast dam breaking, releasing out all its water, bursting through his mind in an irresistible flood that swept everything away.
206 > There is only one reality that generates all of the observations.
208 > If different observations seem to point in incompatible directions, it means the true hypothesis is one you haven't thought of yet.
210 > —_Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality_ by Eliezer Yudkowsky
212 > I don't want to sabotage you
213 > But you see, I've got to try
215 > —"I'll Fly", _My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic_
217 > Sometimes the things you want
218 > Are not the things you need
219 > And it was right there in front of me
221 > —"Right There in Front of Me", _My Little Pony Equestria Girls: Friendship Games_
223 http://www.orwell.ru/library/essays/politics/english/e_polit/
225 > Here's to those who love not too wisely, no, not too wisely, but too well
226 > To the girl who sighs with envy when she hears that wedding bell
227 > To the guy who'd throw a party if he knew someone to call
228 > Here's to the losers, bless them all
230 > —"Here's to the Losers"
232 > This book is about the female primates who have evolved over the last seventy million years. It is dedicated to the liberated woman who never evolved but with imagination, intelligence, an open mind, and perserverance many of us may yet become.
234 > —Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, dedication to _The Woman That Never Evolved_
236 > Given that females prefer to live with female relatives if they are going to live in groups at all, and given that the size and dispersion of these groups is determined by the interaction of food availability and predation risk, how should males map themselves onto the female distribution?
238 > Robin I. M. Dunbar, Primate Social Systems, Ch. 7, "Evolution of Grouping Patterns"
240 > "LMAO", says a member of the Community Team. A colleague approaches him and asks why he is laughing. "I just heard the funniest joke in the world!" "Well, go ahead, tell me!" says the other judge. "I can't–I just gave someone a code of conduct violation for it!"
242 > —old Soviet joke (paraphrased)
245 > If you think, then don't speak.
246 > If you think and speak, then don't write.
247 > If you think, speak, and write, then don't sign.
248 > If you think, speak, write, and sign, then don't be surprised.
252 https://xkcd.com/1942/
254 > A woman came up to me and said
255 > "I'd like to poison your mind
256 > With wrong ideas that appeal to you
257 > Though I am not unkind"
259 > —"Whistling in the Dark" by They Might Be Giants
261 > "The only thing standing in the way of my own progress," Sagreda said, "is that the forces that once dealt with us honestly have been buried too deep to reach. All I can touch now is the surface, which is shaped by nothing but whim."
263 > —["Bit Players"](https://subterraneanpress.com/magazine/winter_2014/bit_players_by_greg_egan) by Greg Egan
265 > Every asshole these days has a blog. Every asshole with a blog wants to “change the world.” But the great thing about being right is that, when the world catches on, you really can’t tell whether or not they heard it from you. The truth, being true, belongs to all.
267 > — https://www.unqualified-reservations.org/2010/11/ur-heard-it-here-first-files/
269 > Too long I've been afraid of
270 > Losing love I guess I've lost
271 > Well, if that's love
272 > It comes at much too high a cost!