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@@ -51,25 +51,33 @@ https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/9fpWoXpNv83BAHJdc/the-comedy-of-behaviorism
 * study evidence that this is actually common
 * AGPs dating each other is the analogue of "Failed Utopia 4-2"!!—the guys in "Conservative Men in Conservative Dresses" are doing better in some ways. Tri-S was explicitly not for transsexuals
 > The vast majority of men are not what the vast majority of women would most prefer, or vice versa. I don’t know if anyone has ever actually done this study, but I bet that both gay and lesbian couples are happier on average with their relationship than heterosexual couples. (Googles… yep, looks like it.) <https://news.softpedia.com/news/Gay-and-Lesbian-Families-Are-Happier-than-Heterosexual-Ones-77094.shtml>
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+* Amy Alkon song
 * finding things in the refrigerator
 *  https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/FBgozHEv7J72NCEPB/my-way https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/xsyG7PkMekHud2DMK/of-gender-and-rationality
 * make sure the late-onset/AGP terminology is introduced in a coherent order rather than being inserted willy-nilly
-* the message length of my existence (https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/mB95aqTSJLNR9YyjH/message-length)
+* the message length of my existence (https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/mB95aqTSJLNR9YyjH/message-length) http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2019/10/hobbyhorse-apology/
 [TODO: "expecting women to be defective men"]
 * aren't all those transwomen going to be _embarrrassed_ after the Singularity, when telepathy tech makes everything obvious
 * stress fracture vs. sprain: psychology is more complicated, but the basic moral holds
 * "I don't care" "It sounds like you do care"
 * pronouns do have truth conditions
  * The text of this blog post is not something a woman could have written
- * as a programmer, I have learned to fear dependencies
 * wipe culturally defined values: https://www.greaterwrong.com/posts/BkkwXtaTf5LvbA6HB/moral-error-and-moral-disagreement (this might have to go after Failed-Utopia #4-2)
+* https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/LRKXuxLrnxx3nSESv/should-ethicists-be-inside-or-outside-a-profession "Anyone who gives a part of themselves to a profession discovers a sense of beauty in it." same thing with an ideology; http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2017/03/dreaming-of-political-bayescraft/
+http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2017/03/brand-rust/
+* the moment in October 2016 when I switched sides http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2016/10/late-onset/
 * detachable
 * If I want to stay aligned with women, then figuring out how to do that depends on the facts about actual sex differences; if I want to do the value-exchange suggested in 
 
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/r3NHPD3dLFNk9QE2Y/search-versus-design-1
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/JBFHzfPkXHB2XfDGj/evolution-of-modularity
 
+> _Look in the mirror  
+> What's a white guy doing there?  
+> I'm just a spirit  
+> I'm just a spirit  
+> Floting in air, floating in air, floating in air!_
+
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 Outline for remaining Coda—
@@ -413,3 +421,5 @@ EGS??
 https://www.overcomingbias.com/2020/12/social-proof-but-of-what.html
 
 cooperate with men who cooperate with women
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+Cross-gender identity is a virtually sustained or intermittently occurring wishful fantasy about being a person of the opposite sex.” Freund, K., Steiner, B.W. & Chan, S. Two types of cross-gender identity. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 11, 49–63 (1982). DOI: 10.1007/BF01541365