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-Title: Codes of Conflict; Or, Smile More (working title)
+Title: Codes of Convergence; Or, Smile More (working title)
 Date: 2020-01-01 
 Category: commentary
 Tags: discourse, software industry, anecdotal
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 > —["Your Racist Friend"](https://genius.com/4498157) by They Might Be Giants
 
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 It is humbling to contemplate the possibility that the only reason I haven't suffered any consequences for my writing is simply because I'm _not important enough_ to be a target—in either direction. (That is: no one hates this blog enough to bother reversing the pseudonym and making trouble for me in real life, and, conversely, my open-source and professional work isn't notable enough for anyone to bother digging to see if I have a secret gender-heresy blog.)
 
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 Curtis Yarvin
 Rod Vagg linked to Quillette
 Opal guy said trans people are delusional
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 http://archive.is/oqDta
 
 [the taxi man]
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+https://twitter.com/_sagesharp_/status/1042769399596437504
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+https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/18505.html
+https://adainitiative.org/2012/10/25/open-source-software-open-to-all/
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+I'm concerned about the category boundaries of "annoying" changing over time in response to political pressures, even while it remains true that at any particular time, it's not hard to read the situation and decide to not be annoying
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+Freddie DeBoer, "Planet of Cops" http://archive.is/g4mfx
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+https://imgur.com/TV8VScL
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+https://lulz.com/linux-devs-threaten-killswitch-coc-controversy-1252/
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+https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/20/413
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+Christoph Conrads's critique: https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/20/1172
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+Edward Cree's critique: https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/19/234 https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/20/52 https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/20/118
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+great troll: https://lkml.org/lkml/2018/9/23/148
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+https://quillette.com/2018/06/19/why-women-dont-code/
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+https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/bbc-to-identify-haters-within-lgbt-allies/
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9qaqik/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_october_22/e89kb23/
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+https://www.gnu.org/philosophy/kind-communication.html
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+https://www.theregister.co.uk/2018/10/22/sqlite_code_of_conduct/
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+implicit marketing and context collapse
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+http://reason.com/blog/2017/04/18/drupal-developer-ousted-over-kink#slide1
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+https://medium.com/@marlene.jaeckel/the-empress-has-no-clothes-the-dark-underbelly-of-women-who-code-and-google-women-techmakers-723be27a45df