X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git;a=blobdiff_plain;f=notes%2Fnotes.txt;h=4ba969fcd4f6a02a2b6fea4bdda80884d0152a41;hp=56d1732984e3eafd31ed8ff996dd88eb07e57e25;hb=b8bce0ce21911e14343dee395a5551d8a2936da8;hpb=fbbab80a2983b9254e1badc51ac8a9dbe592cf81 diff --git a/notes/notes.txt b/notes/notes.txt index 56d1732..4ba969f 100644 --- a/notes/notes.txt +++ b/notes/notes.txt @@ -1154,3 +1154,9 @@ http://thefutureprimaeval.tumblr.com/post/156517718308/you-may-not-be-interested https://twitter.com/Indy_Leya/status/1095257325118648320 "Trying to Be Exp": mention how we don't have shared language to describe what orgasm feels like + +there's a problem where if what you actually believe is extremely nuanced, and in some contexts you say something shorter and "punchier" (that's pushing back against a local majority: see "All Debates Are Bravery Debates"), people will ever-so-slightly misinterpret the punchier version and say, "Ah-ha!" like, I'm not _intending_ to motte-and-bailey, but _something_ has to get lost between the 5000-word nuanced version and the version that fits in a Tweet, and I'm sorry that the Tweet version is bailey-like + +one woman's precautions against men: https://twitter.com/editingemily/status/1095853582346141697 + +telling the only woman in a karoke group: you're our only female vocalist, you should sing this part. I wouldn't say that if there was a trans woman in the room; it's a trivial example, but life is composed of these little things