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@@ -65,6 +65,7 @@ https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/9fpWoXpNv83BAHJdc/the-comedy-of-behaviorism
  * as a programmer, I have learned to fear dependencies
 * wipe culturally defined values: https://www.greaterwrong.com/posts/BkkwXtaTf5LvbA6HB/moral-error-and-moral-disagreement (this might have to go after Failed-Utopia #4-2)
 * detachable
+* If I want to stay aligned with women, then figuring out how to do that depends on the facts about actual sex differences; if I want to do the value-exchange suggested in 
 
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/r3NHPD3dLFNk9QE2Y/search-versus-design-1
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/JBFHzfPkXHB2XfDGj/evolution-of-modularity
@@ -336,6 +337,11 @@ A culture where there are huge catastrophic consequences for questioning gender
 
 —
 
+The real alignment-theory lesson is about : 
+[TODO: the point it about unforeseen maximum, and for the purposes of a dramatic story, it's OK to focus on the big separating hyperplane, even if there are many other hyperplanes]
+[TODO: "Interpersonal Entanglement" suggests a negotiation]
+
+
 
 [evolution didn't design women and men to be optimal partners for each other](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/Py3uGnncqXuEfPtQp/interpersonal-entanglement),