From: M. Taylor Saotome-Westlake Date: Sun, 5 Feb 2017 04:58:11 +0000 (-0800) Subject: drafting "A Beacon Through the Darkness; Or, Getting It Right" X-Git-Url: http://unremediatedgender.space/source?p=Ultimately_Untrue_Thought.git;a=commitdiff_plain;h=47ec34507d1de334bb854b72623c8f3260fa20e7 drafting "A Beacon Through the Darkness; Or, Getting It Right" --- diff --git a/content/drafts/a-beacon-through-the-darkness-or-getting-it-right-the-first-time.md b/content/drafts/a-beacon-through-the-darkness-or-getting-it-right-the-first-time.md index c8b3919..7e0ddd9 100644 --- a/content/drafts/a-beacon-through-the-darkness-or-getting-it-right-the-first-time.md +++ b/content/drafts/a-beacon-through-the-darkness-or-getting-it-right-the-first-time.md @@ -3,4 +3,21 @@ Date: 2020-01-01 Category: other Tags: autogynephilia, personal -On August 6, 2006, I came across the +On 6 August 2006 (I was eighteen years old), while browsing _Wikipedia_ (likely [the 31 July revision](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Blanchard%27s_transsexualism_typology&oldid=66803255) of what is now the "Blanchard's transsexualism typology" article?), I came across the word _autogynephilia_ for the first time, and immediately recognized that _this was the word; this was the word for my thing_. + +I didn't _know_ it was supposed to be controversial, and was actually surprised that it had been coined in the context of a theory of transsexualism; I had never had any _reason_ to come up with any ludicrous rationalizations that I was somehow _literally_ a girl in some unspecified metaphysical sense. + +I wrote in my notebook: + +> THERE'S A WORD FOR IT. _There's a word for it._ I don't know whether to be happy that there's an adjective for what I have, or sad that other men have it, & that it's not not mine, & only mine. Bless Wikipedia for showing me [...] But still, after all emotions have fitted themselves away, there is the word. "Autogynephilia." So simple; I know all the foreign roots; I should have thought of it. "Autogynephilic." That's what I am. + +![notebook: THERE'S A WORD FOR IT ...]({filename}/images/getting_it_right_1.jpg) + +And: + +> Scarcity is a _metaphysical_ fact, so why am I hurt when my word (which I didn't invent & only discovered a few hours ago) has so many connotations attached to it that I don't like? The dictionary definition is perfect for me, but all the exposition after that has to do with transsexualism, which annoys me, although thinking of it now, I suppose it would seem to be a logical extension to some. I'm autogynephilic _without_ being gender-dysphoric—_or am I?_ _If_ transitioning cheap & fast & painless & perfect—wouldn't I at least be tempted? What I can't stand is transsexuals who want to express the man/woman they "truly are inside"—because I don't think there's any such thing. It _has_ to be about sex—because gender shouldn't exist. + +![notebook: so why am I hurt when my word ...]({filename}/images/getting_it_right_2.jpg) + +My views on gender have changed a _lot_ over the past ten years—most notably, I'm not a psychological sex differences denialist anymore, so I'm afraid I can no longer endorse that "gender shouldn't exist" stance. (Given that sex differences exist and people aren't going to _pretend not to notice_, at least some social-role defaults are inevitably going to accrete around them.) + diff --git a/content/images/getting_it_right_1.jpg b/content/images/getting_it_right_1.jpg new file mode 100644 index 0000000..e3c837d Binary files /dev/null and b/content/images/getting_it_right_1.jpg differ diff --git a/content/images/getting_it_right_2.jpg b/content/images/getting_it_right_2.jpg new file mode 100644 index 0000000..a809653 Binary files /dev/null and b/content/images/getting_it_right_2.jpg differ