From 781f5bdaaf89544a79a43d2839f588e3fd1b853b Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: "M. Taylor Saotome-Westlake" Date: Fri, 2 Jun 2023 18:35:06 -0700 Subject: [PATCH] check in --- ...ved-social-control-mechanisms-and-rocks.md | 6 +-- notes/memoir-sections.md | 44 ++++++++++++------- 2 files changed, 31 insertions(+), 19 deletions(-) diff --git a/content/drafts/people-evolved-social-control-mechanisms-and-rocks.md b/content/drafts/people-evolved-social-control-mechanisms-and-rocks.md index bd98451..590161b 100644 --- a/content/drafts/people-evolved-social-control-mechanisms-and-rocks.md +++ b/content/drafts/people-evolved-social-control-mechanisms-and-rocks.md @@ -572,7 +572,7 @@ I feared violence from the other inmates. I thought I could subtly leave clues t After being released from psych prison, arrangements were made for made for me to attend the Intensive Outpatient Program at Kaiser Walnut Creek—more school-like group sessions where they talk about feelings and coping strategies. That was also anti-helpful, but it was much less of a problem. The outpatient psych authorities are of course just as stupid and overbearingly paternalistic as the inpatient psych prison authorities, with the crucial difference that they don't have any power. In psych prison, the doors are locked; you physically can't leave. -The outpatient program has a few social-pressure sales tactics meant to persuade you that you have some underlying condition that requires their "care". They were unpersuaded by my cause-and-effect reasoning that I had gone crazy due to stress-induced sleep deprivation, and was now fine after having gotten sleep. Getting sleep _fixed the problem_. +The outpatient program has a few social-pressure sales tactics meant to persuade you that you have some underlying condition that requires their "care". They were unpersuaded by my cause-and-effect reasoning that I had gone crazy due to stress-induced sleep deprivation, and was now fine after having gotten sleep, that getting sleep _fixed the problem_. But the doors aren't locked; they don't actually have any power over you that you don't give them. @@ -720,7 +720,7 @@ On 12 March 2017, I made a Facebook post trying to explain my new outlook: ------ -Also on 12 March, I asked Anna if she would be willing to promise not to contact the authorities even if she really did think I would successfully kill myself if she didn't (Subject: "trust establishment"). "I don't expect this scenario to come up," I said, "but I want to know who I can trust in scenarios where my will comes into conflict with social reality." +Also on 12 March 2017, I asked Anna if she would be willing to promise not to contact the authorities even if she really did think I would successfully kill myself if she didn't (Subject: "trust establishment"). "I don't expect this scenario to come up," I said, "but I want to know who I can trust in scenarios where my will comes into conflict with social reality." She said she'd want to have a more detailed conversation about it before offering any such promise, which I agreed was a more sensible answer than the Yes I was fantasizing about. @@ -814,7 +814,7 @@ http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2017/03/friends-can-change-the-world-or-request-for-s Anyway, that, briefly—I mean it—is the story of how the stress of confronting people on Facebook about the illogic of gender-identity ideology caused me to go insane from sleep deprivation, twice, shattering most of my remaining faith in Society and institutions along the way. -It's probably not that interesting! If it weren't somewhat-informative backstory presaging my accidental instigation of a full-on robot-cult religious civil war two years later, I wouldn't have bothered to tell this substory of my Whole Dumb Story in this much detail—as evidenced by the fact that, [later in 2017, I started telling it in considerably less detail, and didn't even end up finishing that](/2017/Jun/memoirs-of-my-recent-madness-part-i-the-unanswerable-words/). +It's probably not that interesting! If it weren't somewhat-informative backstory presaging my accidental instigation of a full-on robot-cult religious civil war two years later, I wouldn't have bothered to tell this substory of my Whole Dumb Story in this much detail—as evidenced by the fact that, later in 2017, I [started](/2017/Mar/fresh-princess/) [telling it in considerably less detail, and didn't even end up finishing that](/2017/Jun/memoirs-of-my-recent-madness-part-i-the-unanswerable-words/). I think I learned a lot during this period, but I wish there could have been some way to learn it with less drama—to take the form I took, without the disastrously formative experience. I wonder how the rest of this Whole Dumb Story would have gone, if I had just _shrugged and logged off_ earlier in February 2017, rather than losing sleep—if I would have had the strength to fight, later, without the memory of fighting until it broke me. Sometimes, I worry that human psychology is built such that things couldn't have been too much otherwise—that the _realistic_ alternative to taking things too seriously (to the detriment of one's health, and severely inconveniencing others) is taking them lying down. diff --git a/notes/memoir-sections.md b/notes/memoir-sections.md index e265737..f2b7736 100644 --- a/notes/memoir-sections.md +++ b/notes/memoir-sections.md @@ -13,19 +13,26 @@ TODO finish before I can vet and ship pt.s 1–3 ✓ Vassar discourse III ✓ proposed credit-assignment ritual ✓ emailing Blanchard/Bailey/Hsu/Lawrence/Cantor/Dreger -_ "Roberta" situation +✓ tie-off +- "Roberta" situation _ overheating in April, staying at Volterra, Hamilton purchase _ BABSCon _ "my call with Western Psychiatric's Manager of Patient Relations" _ final credit assignment ritual -_ tie-off +_ phenotypic capture and memetic identity (insert into pt. 1) pre-edit phase— _ footnote about "density of outright falsehoods" _ security code drama?? ("Although, speaking of documenting" 2 March) _ integrate 5150 scene scraps into a coherent section +near editing tier— +_ "maximize the number of trans ppl" conversation should briefly sample the guy's bogus conjunction of arguments +_ mention my "trembling hand" history with secrets, not just that I don't like it +_ NRx explanation should include the "there's only what won" line +_ It's not clear anyone he usually respects was making this mistake; it seems likely that the original thread was subtweeting Eric Weinstein, who was not making this mistake +_ explain who Michael Bailey is earlier people to consult specifically before pt. 1–3: _ Tail (AGP discussion) @@ -38,14 +45,14 @@ _ Alicorn: briefly, and for Melkor Glowfic reference link _ Sarah (name mention, whether to name conversation) _ Ben/Jessica (Michael) _ Scott -_ Divia? +_ Lex +_ Divia? (ask if she wants to be mentioned?) _ hostile prereader? (first-choice: April) _ professional editor? -_ Lex? -------------- -from the top editing session— bookmark phrase "Besides writing to tell everyone else about it" +from the top editing session— bookmark phrase "At this point, any _normal people_" ---------------- @@ -69,6 +76,11 @@ _ Dolphin War finish ------ With internet available— +_ Trump and Brexit and the summer of George Floyd +_ links to PA hospitals +_ link to my Facebook posts on Azkaban, prematuring conceding the bet, and correcting the bet record +_ Scott on "right to waive your rights" and wrongful committment +_ what did the comments on my Pittsburg/Azkaban post say? _ double-check https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_views_on_transgender_topics#Trans-exclusionary_radical_feminists_(TERFs) link _ gauche (I almost feel like it should be italicized as a foreign word?) _ check that the Feb. Blanchard Tweet is the one with the screenshot-quote @@ -132,8 +144,6 @@ _ Anna's claim that Scott was a target specifically because he was good, my coun _ Yudkowsky's LW moderation policy far editing tier— -_ NRx explanation should include the "there's only what won" line -_ explain who Michael Bailey is earlier _ mention "Beatrice" earlier!! _ mention "special simulator attention" in cxn with https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ideas_of_reference_and_delusions_of_reference _ make sure I mention father asking me to wait before re-starting HRT @@ -157,7 +167,6 @@ _ "counterfactual boyfriend"/It's California in the year 2016 _ not talking about pivotal acts, downstream of not believing in Speech? _ Alyssa lying about me [pt. 4] _ Brian Skyrms?? -_ psych ward [pt. 2] _ emailing Blanchard/Bailey/Hsu/Lawrence [pt. 2] _ HRT (non-)effects, and quitting [pt. 2] _ mr-hire and pre-emptive steelmanning (before meeting LW mods) @@ -165,7 +174,6 @@ _ meeting with Ray _ need to mention Brent's pariah status _ be clearer about dates in "Wilhelm" conversations?? _ "people with fragile identities" dialogue doesn't fit the flow, probably cut or move -_ "maximize the number of trans ppl" conversation should briefly sample the guy's bogus conjunction of arguments _ is the Glowfic author "Lintamande ... they" or "Lintamande ... she"? _ explain plot of _Planecrash_ better _ CfAR's AI pivot?? @@ -174,7 +182,6 @@ _ explain mods protect-feelings _ explain MOPs better _ also had back-and-forth with "Noreen" on 8 Feb in Rob's thread!! _ Motta-Mena and Puts probability-of-gynephilia-by-intersex-condition graph, re trans kids on the margin -_ what exactly goes in the December 2019 blogging spree §? _ "Noreen" discussion needs to cover the part where I'd cause less disruption if I transitioned _ "Noreen"'s girlfriend definitely needs to be mentioned _ get exact dates and correct Sequencing on late 2016 conversations @@ -196,7 +203,6 @@ _ "Do not ask for additional services" doxxable? revise? _ Yudkowsky's "Is someone trolling?" comment as counterevidence to narcissim _ "typographical attack surface" isn't clear _ voting reputation section is weak, needs revision -_ edit "still published under a pseudonym" remark in "A Hill" _ incoprorate "downvote Eliezer in their head" remark from Jessica's memoir _ explain the "if the world were at stake" Sword of Good reference better _ D. also acknowledged AGP @@ -207,9 +213,7 @@ _ mention Will MacAskill's gimped "longtermism" somehow _ re-read a DALL-E explanation and decide if I think it's less scary now _ Scott Aaronson on the blockchain of science https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=6821 _ footnote previous race-IQ baiting on "why do I keep bringing this up" -_ mention my "trembling hand" history with secrets, not just that I don't like it _ https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/yaCwW8nPQeJknbCgf/free-speech-and-triskaidekaphobic-calculators-a-reply-to as part of December 2019 blogging streak -_ It's not clear anyone he usually respects was making this mistake; it seems likely that the original thread was subtweeting Eric Weinstein, who was not making this mistake _ "I Wish You Well" as breakup song _ the function of privacy norms is to protect you from people who want to selectively reveal information to hurt you, so it makes sense that I'm particularly careful about Yudkowsky's privacy and not Scott's, because I totally am trying to hurt Yudkowsky (this also protects me from the charge that by granting more privacy to Yudkowsky than Scott, I'm implying that Yudkowsky said something more incriminating; the difference in treatment is about _me_ and my expectations, rather than what they may or may not have said when I tried emailing them); I want it to be clear that I'm attacking him but not betraying him _ acknowledge that @@ -231,11 +235,9 @@ _ make sure to quote Yudkowsky's LW moderation policy before calling back to it _ tie off Anna's plot arc? _ explain earlier that my practice of "throw money at things" also applied to my friendship with Anna _ mention my robot cult history (I've been here since the late 'aughts) -_ ask Anna what she meant by "soldiers in an ambulance"; I was going to write up an explanation for Ben, but I don't seem to remember _ quote one more "Hill of Meaning" Tweet emphasizing fact/policy distinction _ conversation with Ben about physical injuries (this is important because it explains where the "cut my dick off rhetoric" came from) _ context of his claim to not be taking a stand -_ clarify "Merlin didn't like Vassar" example about Mike's name _ being friends with Anna desipite being political enemies (~May 2019) _ rephrase "gamete size" discussion to make it clearer that Yudkowsky's proposal also implicitly requires people to be agree about the clustering thing _ smoother transition between "deliberately ambiguous" and "was playing dumb"; I'm not being paranoid for attributing political motives to him, because he told us that he's doing it @@ -2595,7 +2597,8 @@ re: recent mental health stuff 11/10/17, 6:28 PM Seems significant in light of Jack blaming me for sleep nagging with "Lenore" -My crazy verbosity: "when I asked what were the ways he thought I could help" → "when I asked how I could help" (cut 5 words) +My crazy verbosity: "when I asked 'what were the ways he thought' I could help" → "when I asked 'how' I could help" (cut 5 words) +"they 'don't know how to interpret observations of' someone not buying it" → "they're 'incapable of seeing' someone not buying it (cut 4 words) "Circling" meta-trainwreck was weeks before appealing to Said to critique Jessica's thing; in retrospect, that was probably causal (even if I wasn't thinking at the time, "I wouldn't be emailing Said if it weren't for that trainwreck thread) @@ -2637,3 +2640,12 @@ activists who want to change society are both incentivized and self-selected for > I do not think a sane society could deal with 3% of males transitioning [...] I can't quite visualize what such a world would look like me— > It looks like my social circle. (This is why I'm worried about suboptimal social norms getting locked in for the wrong reasons—what's fashionable in Berkeley in year X is likely to be mainstream in year X+20.) + +in the hotel room, Michael got up to go to the bathroom, I thought the noise was specifically timed to prevent me from hearing something that I shouldn't + +[something perfectly innocent about math and dolphins](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/esRZaPXSHgWzyB2NL/where-to-draw-the-boundaries) that wouldn't have seemed remotely controversial in 2009, and therefore, by [Noether's theorem](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noether%27s_theorem#Time_invariance), can't be remotely controversial in 2019, as long as energy is conserved. + +I conflated "feminist" with the kind of woman I want + +https://status451.com/2017/11/05/i-see-trad-people/ +my moral compass puts me to the right of the politically vocal tech nerds, especially the more androgynous type of tech nerd \ No newline at end of file -- 2.17.1