+But social progress marches on, and as old grievances recede into the mists of history, new ones take their place, and when the day comes to pass that the designated victim group of our age is _straight boys who wish they were girls_, then suddenly, _I have standing_. Girl, do _I have standing!_ And I will put an _end_ to this _toxic bullshit_, because I am nobody's victim.
+
+An interesting blog post titled ["I Am A Transwoman. I Am In The Closet. I Am Not Coming Out."](https://medium.com/@jencoates/i-am-a-transwoman-i-am-in-the-closet-i-am-not-coming-out-4c2dd1907e42) was making the rounds in my social-media bubble earlier last year. In it, the author, Jennifer Coates, describes his—
+
+_Yes_. Yes, I went there. Yes, I [know](http://www.entirelyamelia.com/2014/01/02/misgendering-okay-justifiable-yes-big-deal/) how [offensive]() that is. But I have a point to make.
+
+This is a blog post about a young man's stuggles with gender dysphoria: ever since childhood, he's desperately wished to be a girl,
+
+
+He _said_ he's not planning to transition. He said it in the title!
+
+
+
+> Resentments on the theme of "the only real transwoman is an out transwoman."
+
+
+
+
+Fantasizing about being a girl is not the same thing as somehow already _literally_ being a girl.
+
+When I remarked on this to a acquaintence
+
+
+
+> I suspect "transsexual" is related to "gay" but this doesn’t bother me.
+
+Sometimes it is! Not in your case, though.
+
+The story related in this article is that of a male with gender dysphoria.
+
+https://medium.com/@jencoates/i-am-a-transwoman-i-am-in-the-closet-i-am-not-coming-out-4c2dd1907e42#.5dlc2qog6
+
+> I wonder what this means — if the fact that I prefer girls is evidence of my boyhood.