-need to work in—
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-* my quip about men who love what we _wish_ women were
-* address the "Puerto Rican women don't have exactly the same distribution as women as a whole" argument
-* link "Blegg Mode" somewhere
-* restrooms as safe spaces quote (if I can get permission)
-* link Ozy on "We don't have a sex gap"
-* call out the mendacity of "assigned at birth"
-* link track post
-* this a question of what social norms we want to negotiate
+People should get what they want. We should have social norms that help people get what they want.
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+Unfortunately, helping people get the things that they want is a hard problem, because people are complicated and the world is complicated. That's why, when renegotiating social norms to apply to a historically unprecedented situation, it's important that we