+Arguing with a specific person's published words is important, because otherwise you can strawman
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+[Am I the asshole?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/)
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+(I told people that my father was coming to pick me up at the end of my 72-hour (== 3 days) evaluation period, but that it wasn't fair that I couldn't rescue everyone.)
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+blegg commentary: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/GEJzPwY8JedcNX2qz/blegg-mode#aAgSDZ4ddHpzj9fNN