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+too picky http://pbfcomics.com/comics/matched/
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+(early play behavior predicts later aggression) https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-1005-6
+(empathizing and systematizing) http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0031661
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+https://twitter.com/arthur_affect/status/883902728849809409 "being nice to people with a weird disorder but not so nice you forget you're just humoring them" (Yes, exactly)