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+get girl, be girl
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+tailcalled's survey: https://www.reddit.com/r/GCdebatesQT/comments/6hp72p/are_agps_misogynist_results_from_a_survey/
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+"I was already presenting as female online, and in the pretty niche stuff I was playing around with it seemed like I was a novelty to devs. I got more than a few questions about how I was a girl – who liked computers! The tone was always friendly, but the undertone was clear: I was weird." https://modelviewculture.com/pieces/there-and-back-again (The devs' surprise is making a _correct prediction_)
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+sorry Dad https://twitter.com/HandOnHilt/status/876880147152072704
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+http://www.translucidcomic.com/comic/the-pair/
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+too picky http://pbfcomics.com/comics/matched/
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+(early play behavior predicts later aggression) https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-1005-6
+(empathizing and systematizing) http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0031661
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+https://twitter.com/arthur_affect/status/883902728849809409 "being nice to people with a weird disorder but not so nice you forget you're just humoring them" (Yes, exactly)