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+very vague childhood memory of wanting to play with my pecs? Is it real??
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+I'm happy for people to rebuild their lives around a paraphilia. I'm not happy for people to rebuild their lives around a _bad explanation_.
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+The Girl in the Mirror
+The Hand I Was Dealt
+A Man With a Transfeminine Side
+The Man With the Nonstandard Hormone Balance
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+not a masculine, macho man, but, you know, the biologically-male kind of man