find the contributor covenant PR where someone wanted to carve out a personal Twitter exemption, and the counterargument mentioned naming the project in the profile
https://where.coraline.codes/blog/oscon/
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+Jerrica independently idenfitied it as a microaggression
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+https://www.nateliason.com/blog/social-disobedience
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+singular they for named individuals with an Anglosphere name or a beard in their profile photo