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+Title: "But I'm Not Quite Sure What That Means": Costs of Nonbinary Gender as a Social Technology
+Date: 2020-01-01
+Category: commentary
+Tags: epistemology, nonbinary, social technology
+Status: draft
+
+> _Eight o'clock, Monday night, and I'm waiting
+> To finally talk to a girl a little cooler than me
+> Her name is Nona; she's a rocker with a nose ring
+> She's AFAB enby but I'm not quite sure what that means_
+>
+> —["Girl All the Bad Guys Want"](https://genius.com/Bowling-for-soup-girl-all-the-bad-guys-want-lyrics) by Bowling for Soup (paraphrased)
+