+In a world where we _actually had_ magical perfect sex-change technology of the kind described in "Changing Emotions", then people who wanted to change sex would do so, and everyone else would use the corresponding language (pronouns and more), _not_ as a courtesy, _not_ to maximize social welfare, but because it _straightforwardly described reality_.
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+In a world where we don't have magical perfect sex-change technology, but we _do_ have hormone replacement therapy and various surgical methods ...
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+[TODO: explain that "I don't do policy."]
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+The thing I'm objecting to is this _culture of narcissistic Orwellian mind games_ that thinks people have the right to _dictate other people's model of reality_.
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+[TODO: Jessica and Sam should exist, but this culture is nuts
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+https://twitter.com/caraesten/status/1092472430465929216
+> damn one extremely bad way to start my day is having the receptionist at slack say I look like a male celebrity
+> I'm so mad. wow. like. I look like this right now, how could anyone ever think that was an okay thing to say???
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+It was a complement! I don't _want_ people to have to doublethink around their perceptions of me, pretend not to notice
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+Ziz's complaint that I'm siding with the oppressors in conceptual warfare
+the political incentives propagate recursively, a phase transition: in a culture it's normal for AGP males to transition, any sub-culture where they don't is subject to attack as transphobic
+I want to stay aligned with _actual women_, many of whom have an interest in excluding me and Ziz
+]