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+In the comments, [I wrote](https://www.greaterwrong.com/posts/QZs4vkC7cbyjL9XA9/changing-emotions/comment/4pttT7gQYLpfqCsNd)—
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+> Is it cheating if you deliberately define your personal identity such that the answer is No?
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+To which I now realize the correct answer is: _Yes_, it's cheating! The map is not the territory!
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