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+https://www.reddit.com/r/askAGP/comments/16g0s67/textbook_agp_as_an_afab/
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/16i82vh/is_it_ever_just_a_fetish/
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+A Discord anecdote (https://discord.com/channels/401181628015050773/458329253595840522/1151404259460517918); I wasn't going to point out that this was gaslighting—
+> one of my parents' friends when I was a kid was a trans woman, though I didn't know that at the time (I knew she was a woman I just didn't know she was trans)
+> I remember being like nine years old and thinking something along the lines of 'hmm, [name] looks like a woman, and has a girl name, but she sounds like a guy?? what's up with that??' before ultimately concluding that Presumably my parents knew what gender she was and they were using a girl name and female pronouns for her, so therefore she was a girl
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/16ko1jj/i_dont_get_along_with_guys/