but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man.
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+What actual women are like vs. feminist power fantasy: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/8tpcyn/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_june_25_2018/e1f67ky/
+https://www.newstatesman.com/culture/2013/08/i-hate-strong-female-characters
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+reading the famous Flight 93 essay and coming across a scare-quoted "cis-genderism", I want to say, "You mean _cisnormativity_"
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