long confrontation 2: still in December 2018 emails

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 https://samsunglabs.github.io/MegaPortraits/
 
 https://drmaciver.substack.com/p/a-fractal-of-lies
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+The woman at a party who says that she's also somewhat gender-dysphoric and always uses gender-neutral screennames specifically because she likes being treated as an unmarked person rather than The Girl, thereby becomes way more interesting to me as A Girl. (This is the thing about my preferences that I prefer not to explain clearly because I'm secretly terrified that it's implicitly misogynistic, which is why you were so surprised when you met Linda and noticed her distinct lack of resemblance to Aphrodite.)