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@@ -322,6 +322,8 @@ https://np.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/8hob8i/why_do_i_do_this_nsfw/
 
 Lindsay Shepherd/James Damore shipfic
 
+https://medium.com/@aytchellis/is-it-possible-to-change-sex-8d863ce7fca2
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 Brazillian woman moves to Sweeden and cherished egalitarian culture: https://medium.com/@sayhellotovanessa/the-oddities-of-being-an-invisible-woman-8570394caa0d
 
 most of men's attractiveness is cues of upper-body strength: http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/284/1869/20171819
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 https://twitter.com/Indy_Leya/status/1095257325118648320
 
 "Trying to Be Exp": mention how we don't have shared language to describe what orgasm feels like
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+there's a problem where if what you actually believe is extremely nuanced, and in some contexts you say something shorter and "punchier" (that's pushing back against a local majority: see "All Debates Are Bravery Debates"), people will ever-so-slightly misinterpret the punchier version and say, "Ah-ha!" like, I'm not _intending_ to motte-and-bailey, but _something_ has to get lost between the 5000-word nuanced version and the version that fits in a Tweet, and I'm sorry that the Tweet version is bailey-like
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+one woman's precautions against men: https://twitter.com/editingemily/status/1095853582346141697
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+telling the only woman in a karoke group: you're our only female vocalist, you should sing this part. I wouldn't say that if there was a trans woman in the room; it's a trivial example, but life is composed of these little things