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 > The most obvious way to fulfil this desire isn't "become a woman", but to own a woman [...] And if "owning" a woman is too unthinkable, you might come up with creative solutions.
 
 https://woodfromeden.substack.com/p/men-consume-relationships-women-produce
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+https://www.overcomingbias.com/p/escalating-signals-cut-fertility
+> and more respect young adults who shape themselves alone, and then once they’ve achieved more distinctive personal styles and interests, search among vast numbers of potential partners for the few who most closely match what they have become
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/askAGP/comments/16g0s67/textbook_agp_as_an_afab/
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/16i82vh/is_it_ever_just_a_fetish/
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+A Discord anecdote (https://discord.com/channels/401181628015050773/458329253595840522/1151404259460517918); I wasn't going to point out that this was gaslighting—
+> one of my parents' friends when I was a kid was a trans woman, though I didn't know that at the time (I knew she was a woman I just didn't know she was trans)
+> I remember being like nine years old and thinking something along the lines of 'hmm, [name] looks like a woman, and has a girl name, but she sounds like a guy?? what's up with that??' before ultimately concluding that Presumably my parents knew what gender she was and they were using a girl name and female pronouns for her, so therefore she was a girl
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+https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/16ko1jj/i_dont_get_along_with_guys/
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+https://www.thecut.com/article/adult-friendships-vs-kids.html She's not ideological about it like I am.
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