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@@ -48,7 +48,6 @@ push back against the global narrative without pushing back against any particul
 
 you delusional bastards—
 * I Want to See You Be Brave
-* Don't Negotiate With Terrorist Memeplexes; Or, Why I Don't Care About Your Feelings
 * Yes, the Only Real Trans Woman Is a Transitioned Trans Woman (critique of https://medium.com/@jencoates/i-am-a-transwoman-i-am-in-the-closet-i-am-not-coming-out-4c2dd1907e42#.5dlc2qog6) 
 * Review of Nevada
 
@@ -69,36 +68,26 @@ epistemology—
 other commentary—
 psychological sex differences aren't real, but gender identity is?? always nurture except when politically convenient
 Bucketing (go through Wikipedia list of trans women, categorize everyone)
-God, I hope it's just a coincidence that Steven Goldberg gets the fact/value thing right and everyone else gets it wrong
 horror story about trans activists being pro-porn, &c. indicating how aliens would analyze them as a subtype of males
 * Engineering possibilities (Anne Lawrence identitfy early); people say they wish they could have transitioned younger if they knew it were possible (https://twitter.com/argumentshop/status/815633404943183872), but part of the reason people don't know it's possible is because AGP fantasy is the strongest diagnostic criterion and everyone is lying about this
 rachet effect (http://transblog.grieve-smith.com/the-slippery-slope/) (I can't imagine self with short hair)
 My Story
 * Collective Debt, Collective Shame (what I wanted to say to /r/GenderCritical, why it didn't work, even if they're not so hostile towards Miranda Yardley or the androphilic MtTs who post)
 * Someone Has To Say It
-* I'm Sick of Being Lied To
 * Falsifiability and What We Expect Not to See (this is important for the Bayes crowd)
-* If I Were Gender Czar (and while we're at it, someone needs to do something about the flying pig population explosion, and let's start array indices at 0.5.)
 * critique Julia Serano on nature: of course trans genders are less natural; that's the entire fucking point
 * wait, even Julia Serano can't find cis women to date?? http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/01/14/the-struggle-to-find-trans-love-in-san-francisco.html (I would expect the status boost of being a B-list activist would help; less high-status trans women have even less of a chance)
-* the Spirit of the Staircase
 * the intellectually-honest, transhumanist version of trans rights
-* entangled truths, contagious lies: https://autogynephiliatruth.wordpress.com/2016/07/18/gender-identity-exists-to-create-special-framework-for-health-insurance-payments/ 
-
-putting the trans in transdermal
-putting the cis in decision
+* "Entangled Truths, Contagious Lies": https://autogynephiliatruth.wordpress.com/2016/07/18/gender-identity-exists-to-create-special-framework-for-health-insurance-payments/ 
 
 criticism—
 Gender of the Gaps (you can always propose an essence when people knock down your ludicrous rationalization)
 Time Travel Isn't Real
 
-
-
 cathartic—
 Napoleon
 70s denialists had it right
 
-
 pages—
 compile papers
 
@@ -143,8 +132,6 @@ marketing opportunity? https://bannedbytrans.wordpress.com/speaking-out-against-
 
 _Someone_ has to be _that asshole_ who says the true thing that everyone else is too cowardly to say, and I guess it's going to have to be me, Taylor Saotome-Westlake.
 
-get girl, be girl
-
 tailcalled's survey: https://www.reddit.com/r/GCdebatesQT/comments/6hp72p/are_agps_misogynist_results_from_a_survey/
 
 "I was already presenting as female online, and in the pretty niche stuff I was playing around with it seemed like I was a novelty to devs. I got more than a few questions about how I was a girl – who liked computers! The tone was always friendly, but the undertone was clear: I was weird." https://modelviewculture.com/pieces/there-and-back-again (The devs' surprise is making a _correct prediction_)
@@ -166,7 +153,7 @@ original research post?— the Hsu–Bailey autopedophilia paper finds a much hi
 
 http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0118329
 
-https://arxiv.org/abs/1609.05807 (via https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/6xkyyu/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_following/dmk92dw/)
+Inherent Trade-Offs in risk scoring https://arxiv.org/abs/1609.05807 (via https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/6xkyyu/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_following/dmk92dw/)
 
 prental T and gynephilia in women and women-adj https://twitter.com/SteveStuWill/status/905572666332987392 http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X16301222
 
@@ -178,6 +165,7 @@ body measurements dist'ns http://anthro.cs.uni-freiburg.de/#colx=100&coly=6
 
 same-sex couples do less assortative mating! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2843104/
 
+
 On Mar 4, 2017 3:23 PM, "Zack M. Davis" <main@zackmdavis.net> wrote:
 
     Genocide is murder of a class of people. Can you be more specific about the class of people you see being murdered (nerdy men?) and what you think is murdering them (the political-correctness memeplex that evolved as a social-control mechanism to prevent the United States from becoming Yugoslavia)?
@@ -245,7 +233,9 @@ etymology fun fact: "male" comes from the Latin malus, meaning "bad"
 
 on a Facebook thread about female-dominated gym classes, a female acquaintance writes, "My class focuses on weightlifting and it's still all women (including one trans, oddly enough)." (You wouldn't say "oddly enough" if you actually believed that trans women are women!)
 
-This is so great http://criticaltheology.tumblr.com/post/159472778625/poem-by-a-jewish-trans-woman-written-in-1322
+This is so great (super-AGP 13th century Jewish narrative)
+http://www.on1foot.org/text/even-bochan-kalonymus-ben-kalonymus
+http://www.transtorah.org/PDFs/On-Becoming-A-Woman.pdf
 
 https://theestablishment.co/yes-trans-women-can-get-period-symptoms-e43a43979e8c
 
@@ -254,3 +244,686 @@ Rya comes out as AGP: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ferdf6iRTOg
 ----
 
 I really hope there's a way to use frequencies and Bayes nets to disprove dysphoria→AGP causal direction, particularly because then I'll be able to call the post "Algebraic Typology"
+
+I thought of this pun first/independently: https://twitter.com/WildStoryWoman/status/927514752405737474
+
+BIID: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/28711223/?i=1&from=body%20integrity%20identity%20disorder
+
+the heartbreaking misogyny of my native subculture (not that I'm any different): https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/7bjywe/wellness_wednesday_8th_november_2017/dpitpnu/
+
+Christian AGP repressor: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG7sNHEv-HMKwGQE9RS2byQ
+
+Binnie-ism: https://twitter.com/FioraAeterna/status/928664101013790720
+
+----
+
+
+but now I'm watching TV
+and I have a new actress crush
+Lauren Ash
+maybe it's just the character she's playing, but she seems slightly facially masculinized?
+but so curvy
+so my type
+America Ferrera is also in this show
+I remember her from Ugly Betty, which I would watch at the University in 2007
+before the personality-altering nervous breadown that led me to quit
+there was a trans woman character on that show, but she was played by Rebecca Romijn
+there was a poignant line (you know it's poignant when you can remember a line from a TV show you saw ten years ago) where she says to her brother, "Look into my eyes, Danny; it's the only thing they couldn't change"
+and how do I put this
+my blog would sound a lot less transphobic if we had the technology to make AGPs look like Rebecca Romijn
+Trent - Today at 11:17 PM
+it would sound more transphobic, no? you'd have transitioned, so you wouldn't be concerned with some of the signalling you do now (e.g. woman as a gender rather than transwoman as one) and may indeed be actively signalling that you haven't signed the contract, Yardley-style; the idea it'd be less transphobic assumes becoming Romijn would put you more in line with trans topics as well
+(unless I'm misinterpreting something, which is a reasonable assumption)
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 11:19 PM
+you're right; I wasn't taking the hypothetical seriously enough
+
+> ("Since I was 5, I felt like I've been dropped in the wrong skin. This is about correcting a mistake." "Oh, is that all it is? Really?" "That's the fast version.")
+
+sex diffs in paraphilias: https://muse.jhu.edu/article/669634/pdf
+
+malpractice lawsuit (can't find better public info): https://detransitionedwomenresistadf.wordpress.com/2017/11/19/first-blog-post/
+
+transition didn't change crime rate: http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0016885
+
+"... your identity is supposed to describe the problems you face in your life, not manufacture them": http://neat-dyke.tumblr.com/post/167070168982/old-school-butch-neat-dyke-something-that
+
+http://neat-dyke.tumblr.com/post/162258180487/on-being-a-young-butch-lesbian-at-pride-2017
+
+http://neat-dyke.tumblr.com/post/154578646192/negative-social-effects-of-my-mastectomy
+
+productivity lifehacks: do excellent work in an extremely low-status field that you'd be mortified to be primarily known for, thus forcing yourself to also do excellent work in another area in order to rescue your reputation
+
+https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=7757667
+https://clarissasblog.com/2014/05/14/i-dont-want-to-hire-women/
+
+drawn by a cis woman?? http://weknowmemes.com/2013/11/perks-of-being-a-woman/
+
+"Impact of Using Non-Birth Sex on the Interpretation of Spirometry Data in Subjects With Air-Flow Obstruction": http://rc.rcjournal.com/content/early/2017/11/28/respcare.05586
+
+decrease in IQ on puberty suppression: https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2017.00528/full
+
+AGP pride flag origin: https://4archive.org/board/lgbt/thread/8628058/attached-image-is-the-agp-pride-flag-black-represents-the-r
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/6uc18b/has_any_of_you_felt_horny_when_using_a_packer_for/
+
+https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/kbxw7v/i-was-robbed-of-my-transgender-childhood
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/4ltxc1/does_anyone_else_get_really_turned_on_checking/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/7iqcaf/told_my_wife_i_want_to_transition/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/5axie2/nsfw_im_mtf_i_feel_like_my_body_is_aroused_and/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/7vdw5u/arousal_is_really_messing_with_my_head/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/7yfyp2/anybody_discover_they_were_trans_though_sissy_porn/
+
+https://np.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/8hob8i/why_do_i_do_this_nsfw/
+
+Lindsay Shepherd/James Damore shipfic
+
+Brazillian woman moves to Sweeden and cherished egalitarian culture: https://medium.com/@sayhellotovanessa/the-oddities-of-being-an-invisible-woman-8570394caa0d
+
+most of men's attractiveness is cues of upper-body strength: http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/284/1869/20171819
+
+> In the psychiatric evaluation, Johnson reveals that Kaczynski had persistent and intense sexual fantasies about being a woman. While he was a graduate student at the University of Michigan in 1967, he went to a psychiatrist to discuss his wishes for a sex change operation. But in the waiting room, he decided he could not go forward. Instead, he told the psychiatrist he was depressed about the possibility of being drafted.
+>
+> — https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/politics/1998/09/12/gender-confusion-sex-change-idea-fueled-kaczynskis-rage-report-says/eb33b946-8595-427d-af4c-9ccaada45935/?utm_term=.6222611253f6
+
+so I'm watching more of the retail comedy with :hearts:♡ Lauren Ash ♡:hearts:,  and I think it's just _sociologically fascinating_ how the writers are playing Culture War (guest star character is pro-bathroom bill, and our protagonists are sneeringly like, "Wow, that's so bigoted")
+like, this is how social change happens
+with a conspiracy of NBC comedy writers conspiring to hamfistedly socially intimidate their viewers into not believing anything uncool
+that's my second thought, anyway
+my first thought is
+OMG ★♡ Lauren Ash ♡★ I want to be ~~with~~ her
+
+https://www.newsbusters.org/blogs/culture/erik-soderstrom/2016/09/23/superstore-goes-strike-mocks-bigots-against-transgender
+
+> Garrett: Hey, nik-nik-nikki. I had a quick just, like, silly question for you. Uh, how serious are you about all this sort of trans bathroom stuff?
+Nikki: What do you mean?
+Garrett: I mean, like, is it the only thing you think about or is it more like one of those barely talk about it, just how you were raised, opinion could change if you surrounded yourself with a cooler, more diverse group of friends type deals?
+
+(it's interesting that there's one other (semi-) widely-recognized expansion of that initialism)
+
+the "husband and provider and guardian of a small AI" game looks fun, that I would be so good at it that the thought isn't worth dropping just because you deserve Bob and Alice doesn't want me and Carol doesn't want me and Edith quietly detests me and Georgia belongs to Dave and the owners of OKCupid have pissed themselves laughing about how much money I'm paying them for the privilege of knowing that _ and _ haven't read my poem
+
+"You women and your risk-aversion (compared to men) due to lower reproductive variance (than men) in the environment of evolutionary adaptiveness" is what my analogue who is not forbidden from such thoughts would say
+
+I like her as a person but am very conscious of the extent to which I am currently on her good side due to luck and carefully deceptive handling
+
+(I don't even think I know what I use internally; my blog says "trans women" as two words so as not to pile insult onto injury) but my model, under whatever word, is "guys like me"
+
+like many bottom-80-percentile males, I'm ambiguous on the sign of the poly thing
+
+
+suffering is the chisel God uses to shape us into our true selves
+
+suffering is bad in general, but I've already used up my please-take-care-of-me-I'm-hurt quota for the year, which means I have to enthusiastically endorse any emotional pain that happens to me today
+
+everyone already knows to be cynical about cola commercials, but somehow people expect "Seek medical care if you're concerned" to be taken literally
+
+"We have so much in common!" I said. "Too much," she said.
+the cognitive dissonance that makes "all trans women" and "all closet crossdressers" the only stable equilibria for social circles of AGP males in a culture without a public concept of AGP
+https://transblog.grieve-smith.com/the-essential-conflict/
+
+at JCC camp, I remember saying that I wasn't the kind of guy who was interested in big breasts. "Well, then you're not a guy," I was told. But actually I just hadn't hit puberty yet
+
+Like, I used to tack the word "aspiring" in front as my preferred means of indicating that we don't think we've already solved rationality. Nowadays, I just reach for the scare quotes.
+
+While I agree that words can be used in many ways depending on context, I claim that sometimes it's useful to use this top-20 noun to refer strictly to the same thing it's always referred to for the past 200,000 years since language evolved, even if we have reasonably chosen to broaden the extension of that noun to also include other, relevantly similar things in most day-to-day contexts! Given that people are capable of inferring what is meant from the relevant context, this won't confuse anyone, and we can continue peacefully using language to describe reality. Then, we can use those descriptions of reality to formulate plans! Plans that will steer the universe into regions of configuration space that rank higher in our individual and collective preference orderings!
+
+NRx-inspired (sigh ... yes, unfortunately) points—
+
+(most of this should probably be split into a separate post even if I'm happening to do some outlining in this file; evil speculation shouldn't contaminate the solid "Infovism" idea/slogan)—
+
+ * democracy is government by whichever memes happen to be the most virulent
+ * outcomes of the long run of a one-dimensional conflict can be classified, roughly something like: Left total victory, right total victory, mutually assured destruction, and program equilibrium
+    * program equilibrium isn't easy/possible for humans
+    * the key point here is that "grant this demand, deny all others" isn't a
+      defensible Schelling point; if you yield here, the _same algorithm_ is
+      going to be running the next time
+ * "Berkeley 2009 morality was just right, but this Berkeley 2017 bullshit has
+   gone _too far_!"
+    * If I were dictator, (Berkeley, 2009) could be made to work, but everyone has her own (city, year) pair
+       * for some reason I thought this was analogous to something from the
+         Coherent Extrapolated Volition document: Dennis thinks he should own
+         the world, but fairness requires that Dennis's name be erased from any
+         such request, and "some X should own the world" is underspecified"
+ * remember my conversation with a certain female bio-/psychologist studying at
+   Harvard who told me that "Trans women are men with a mental illness" made
+   more sense, but that she was afraid to even think that within the privacy of
+   her own head
+    * fucking _Harvard_
+ * Moldbug, "The True Meaning of Diversity": "Certainly not every party member
+   is an [X]. Most of them, in fact, are not. Nor is it absolutely guaranteed
+   that every single [X] will be a party member. But most of them, in fact,
+   are"—thus, requiring representaiton of Xes benefits the party
+ * practice of deferring to designated-victim trans women _makes the trans
+   women worse people_: if you know that you can win a dispute by playing the
+   transphobia card, that incentive shapes your life (Moldbug: discussion of
+   "ignoble privilege" in "Gentle Introduction" pt. 3)
+    * kind of like how _the right to be sued_ is an important part of legal
+      personhood: the possibility of recourse is necessary for trust
+
+
+feminists are masculinized: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4158978/
+
+APA pronoun stickers: https://twitter.com/4th_WaveNow/status/950052584416595969
+(original is https://twitter.com/Lucia_A_Schwarz/status/949315365842116608 )
+
+women's voices allegedly getting deeper?!— https://twitter.com/degenrolf/status/949530603342454784
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/7py0ic/fetishizing_yourself/
+
+https://medium.com/eden-the-cat/please-stop-making-me-come-out-as-non-binary-at-work-ab72e17abbcc
+https://medium.com/eden-the-cat/i-came-out-as-non-binary-a-year-ago-here-is-my-experience-177f74fc553e
+
+Tailcalled: "The five genders, chad, male, enby, female, stacy"
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/7s4bu2/as_a_lesbian_in_university_i_feel_increasingly/
+
+https://theestablishment.co/japanese-cartoon-porn-helped-me-understand-my-trans-identity-d5bba16cdaf3
+
+AAP: https://www.reddit.com/r/GCdebatesQT/comments/7s8twd/do_trans_natal_males_fetishize_teenage_girlhood/dt3ea2n/
+
+the conjunction of anti-transphobia and anti-Islamophobia is very strange
+
+https://voices.avoiceformen.com/j4mb/2018/01/15/terrified-patient-treated-like-transphobic-bigot/ —this is a compelling fiction prompt! Sad that a male author like me would be needed to fill in the "evolutionary radfem" niche—have the protagonist be hyperaware of the Rotherdam betrayal
+
+Zucker et al. study that's one of the sources of "majority desist" claims ("Demographics, behavior problems, and psychosexual characteristics of adolescents with gender identity disorder or transvestic fetishism") https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22390530
+
+Tailcalled—
+Old: A*P is caused by internalized sexism, thinking that you have to be a boy to be masculine and have to be a girl to be feminine
+Bold: A*P is caused by lack of sexism, thinking that you can be masculine/nerdy as a girl and feminine/sensitive as a boy
+
+https://pasunhomme.wordpress.com/2015/01/26/crossdressing-and-the-untransy-valley/
+
+like, I regard—
+
+ * transitioning and passing (or passing-adj) as a good outcome
+ * transitioning and not-passing as a bad outcome,
+ * soft body mods (e.g. my breasts)/occasional transvestism without social transition as a good outcome
+ * nonbinary-but-unwilling-to-explain-what-that-means-because-MIGI as a bad outcome (because people are still going to notice your biological sex and make probabilistic inferences about it, but feel socially obligated to pretend that they aren't, and ubiquitous socially-obligatory lies are bad), and
+ * NB-adj transfeminine or transmasculine as an explicit third-gender role as a good outcome, but a very tricky social-engineering problem to establish that niche where it doesn't already exist
+https://twitter.com/KJ_Harrison/status/958435696359993345
+
+distinguish between two types of culture war: when you're demonizing the enemy as orcs, and when you're fighting for the outcome of what happens to people _just like you_
+
+it won't look like that for me due to ideological factors
+"No, I'm not transitioning; I just want to get back on HRT again, for Science"
+1 BLOCKED MESSAGE
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 7:48 PM
+"No, it's not facial feminization surgery; it's just a different cosmetic procedure that happens to be performed by the same doctor"
+
+(on the phone during supermarket checkout) "No, it's just a brain transplant into a artificial vat-grown female body." (store clerk says, "Have a good day, ma'am") "That's very kind of you to say, but—"
+
+I need to write a magical-realism short story pushing on the analogies between dating as a hot girl and job-searching as a good programmer. Specifically, a story a world in which all engineers are female and all businesspeople are male, dwelling on the theme that on the one hand, it's nice to protected and valued and be taken care of, but on the other hand, it's exploitative that the class of protectors is freeloading off the creative labor of your class, which they could never produce on their own (smash capitalism/the patriarchy!!)
+
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 12:00 AM
+"I totally agree with [one-sentence literal summary of the movement's goals], I just disagree with [every other belief and instrumental strategy connotationally associated with the movement]"
+... actually, this generalized situation (meeting the criteria of a simple verbal definition, but not being part of that cluster in configuration space along most dimensions) sounds awfully familiar
+... I'm pro-trans in the same sense that AGP trans women are women
+vaticidalprophet - Today at 12:02 AM
+I get the feeling ever saying those words invalidates you from all definitions of 'pro-trans' even if they are strictly speaking correct
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 12:03 AM
+but Treeeeent, the bullet-biting æsthetic
+vaticidalprophet - Today at 12:03 AM
+jesus, Oberlo is taking a long time to update the prices on my sketchy streetwear dropshipping store
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 12:03 AM
+you can tell I'm serious about it because I bothered to grab the æ ligatrue
+vaticidalprophet - Today at 12:04 AM
+I can tell you're pretentious because you bothered to grab it, that's orthogonal
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 12:04 AM
+"... ligatrue?" "Yes."
+
+----
+
+to say on FB after "The Categories" is finished??
+
+So, hopefully this version is a lot clearer and less needlessly dramatic than my kamikaze halt-melt-catch-fire public tantrum/mental-breakdown of this time last year: [blog link]
+
+[share memory]
+
+-----
+
+https://www.wired.com/2009/03/designerdebate/
+cellular-level sex differences  http://www.physiology.org/doi/abs/10.1152/ajpcell.00281.2013
+
+Effects of prenatal androgens on rhesus monkeys https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3146061/
+
+https://theestablishment.co/why-we-must-stop-calling-menstruation-a-womens-issue-a9c58c677f7c
+
+https://twitter.com/BretWeinstein/status/969660864641953792
+
+https://www.teenvogue.com/story/9-things-people-get-wrong-about-being-non-binary
+
+60,000 likes for "Some men have a uterus": https://twitter.com/PPIndKentucky/status/969384341636861952
+
+https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_flank_effect
+
+demography: https://twitter.com/conradhackett/status/974750991756283904
+
+http://sinesalvatorem.tumblr.com/post/172312442416/trying-to-talk-to-trans-people-about-their-sexual any scale that involves "pretending you’re a woman" in the instructions is OK by me
+
+http://sinesalvatorem.tumblr.com/post/172395616411/explanations-for-distinct-clusters-of-transgender
+
+https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/blood-boundaries-should-transfusions-be-matched-by-sex/
+
+Nothing we haven't seen before, but God Herself above, this fucking poll and thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/89nw0w/did_you_have_a_genderbody_swaptransformation/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/89s93d/getting_so_much_transierthanthou_flak_for_being/
+
+Culture War gem mining, traditionalism for the family: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/88zgv0/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_april_2_2018/dwt8kjb/
+
+https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/04/biohacking-siren-song/557849/
+
+----
+
+A female commenter on one of Giego's posts—
+
+"When I do experience strong attraction, it feels like being scared of the power of attraction itself. It's pleasantly thrilling rather than aversive, but the fear is real, and it's just as compelling as any other fear. This feeling is what produces my coy behaviors like smiling and looking away.
+
+"In this way, I literally *feel* whatever this delay mating instinct is.
+
+"I can't just decide not to feel it. I will feel it no matter what.
+
+"Also, I enjoy the thrill. I don't *want* to get rid of it. I would prefer to experience more of it. If you want to talk about sheer hedonism, I would definitely want to keep this feeling if I were to re-engineer my brain. The feeling of anticipation or suspense is very enjoyable for me."
+
+----
+
+fake implies artificial (but not vice versa)
+
+Cut from "Reply to The Unit" (too far afield, not sure what point I'm trying to make): speculating about unproven sex differences isn't _quite_ as prejudicial as it sounds: if a 19th century scholar, knowing nothing of sex chromosomes, had reasoned, "Whatever the physical mechanism of heredity turns out to be, it probably distinguishes between males and females". (Is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temperature-dependent_sex_determination a counterexample or the dreaded "example that proves the rule" like pipefish or the Eurasian dotterel?)
+
+the ultimate AGP weekend project (like crossdressing, but with more code): http://svencharleer.com/blog/2018/02/02/family-fun-with-deepfakes-or-how-i-got-my-wife-onto-the-tonight-show/
+
+"right"-aligned folk like to say the IAT is "pseudoscientific bullshit", but what if those failed replications are just committing Goldberg's "fallacy of the irrelevant experiment"? Here's a pro-IAT _and_ pro-stereotype-accuracy take: "blacks are violent" stereotype strength varies with local crime rates http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550617753522 (via https://twitter.com/mjbsp/status/983338239221293057)
+
+want to get around to watching this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDDIWGlBt3o
+
+Tips for arguing with libtards:
+ * They don't like the "Don't negotiate with terrorists" frame because they don't understand analogies; need to find gentler frames
+ * They'll believe that you're AGP, but they don't want you to say that other people are AGP because they don't understand that the self is still a part of objective reality; need to explain why it matters
+
+Consider an illustrative diagram in which there is a hard line in the combined height–weight configuration space, but the line isn't describable in terms of height or weight alone. If there were sufficiently many more traits/dimensions, we could imagine "not describable in terms of some small number of variables n" starting to look more like "not explicitly describable by humans."
+
+(not gender-related but I don't have a good notes system): E. Weinstein on IQ: https://twitter.com/EricRWeinstein/status/987833935185952768
+
+"Prenatal endocrine influences on sexual orientation and on sexually differentiated childhood behavior" https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3296090/
+
+The sad thing is, not only is AGP not the same thing as what women feel, a lot of woman are disgusted by it: https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/8e9gd6/what_men_find_behind_female_masks/dxtgrcp/
+
+https://feminina.eu/2017/12/28/my-current-philosophical-struggles/
+
+http://strip.villainette.com/20180205
+
+Yes, my Friendship Problems are proof of my female MIGI: "The overall rates of friendship conflict did not differ between men and women, but women were more likely to clash with close friends, to express feelings of anguish over the breakup, and to be more demanding of evidence of remorse before reconciling." — https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/16/science/friendship-discrimination.html   
+
+women Cooperate less in Prisoner's Dilemma?! https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0001691817305917
+
+degrees of FBOE and GNC https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0980-y
+
+T. accurately psychoanalyzes me: "she doesn't want men and women to be different, and spends a lot of time minimizing these differences, except when she's trying to be more ego-syntonic about the decision to live as male
+in which case she writes giant blog posts on how real and massive it is"
+
+"women drivers" stereotype vs. car insurance acturaries
+
+"as we all know the two genders are math and pregnant" https://rationalists-out-of-context.tumblr.com/post/171916119173/as-we-all-know-the-two-genders-are-math-and?is_related_post=1#notes
+
+_Dumbing of Age_ Carla "There's a _reason_ for that" http://www.dumbingofage.com/2014/comic/book-5/01-when-somebody-loved-me/purpleandskates/
+
+how does the "women like close-knit friends, whereas men like large, loose coalitions" interact with sex-segregated spaces?—would seem to imply _less_ demand for female-only than male-only quasi-public spaces
+
+another crime list: http://appropriately-inappropriate.tumblr.com/post/161606755575/the-tip-of-the-iceberg-please-add-to-this-list
+
+https://www.autostraddle.com/how-to-have-trans-woman-lesbian-sex-with-a-penis-414839/
+
+
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 9:07 AM
+@tail (Richard) "LG doesn't belong with T because" this needs to be blogged; should I credit you?
+tail (Richard) - Today at 9:07 AM
+:spray: you need to stop being TERFy :thunk:
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 9:08 AM
+then TERFs should stop having such good jokes
+tail (Richard) - Today at 9:08 AM
+(this is a significant TERF controversy - not sure if you've heard of it :thunk: )
+oh
+the joke was mine
+the argument that LG and T don't belong are TERFs
+Carrie Zelda-Michelle Davis - Today at 9:10 AM
+I guess I should have quoted the whole thing; I was familiar with the talking point, but it's funny that a naive observer should say, "Um, you mean that the other way around, right? Trans is the intersex condition, LG is sexual orientation"  and then the speaker would say "No"
+tail (Richard) - Today at 9:10 AM
+ah ok, thought you cut off the joke because you were referring to the talking point
+NEW MESSAGES
+tail (Richard) - Today at 9:12 AM
+mm, I don't care that much about getting credited but it'd probably be nice (as long as the credit doesn't make me look TERFy :V)
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/Blanchardianism/comments/8izbbj/prevalence_of_the_wish_to_be_of_the_opposite/
+
+I wasn't brave enough to take a she/her sticker, but it would have been in character, Twilight Sparkle
+
+I've heard of fake geek girls, but this is ridiculous
+
+big brain sex differences study with pretty pictures and d-values: https://academic.oup.com/cercor/advance-article/doi/10.1093/cercor/bhy109/4996558
+
+body horror: https://girl-unashamed.tumblr.com/post/174051510579/parthenogenon-billnihilism-also-i-have-had
+
+the recording here also has stop-recording exchange: https://gendertrender.wordpress.com/2018/05/15/degenderettes-qa-san-francisco-5-12-2018/
+
+Blanchard on the record about "homosexual" terminology: https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/999680624817508352
+
+no one remembers pronouns: https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/1060563648027021314
+
+https://twitter.com/RachelRMoran/status/1060311474780946432
+
+http://abc30.com/homeless-women-harassed-in-shower-lawsuit-says/3514544/
+
+https://medium.com/@maybekatz/on-the-design-of-womens-spaces-72bf8f396dc0
+
+http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5799375/Anti-HPV-jab-given-teenage-boys-identify-girls.html
+
+Yaaaaaay eugenics https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40592-018-0081-2
+
+Hilarious http://skeletonclaw.com/post/102911594023
+
+https://femsplain.com/on-being-non-binary-in-female-spaces-12d5980e7f0c
+
+"Genome-wide association study reveals sex-specific genetic architecture of facial attractiveness" https://www.biorxiv.org/content/early/2018/06/06/339226
+
+Connecticut farce gets worse: https://twitter.com/GameTimeCT/status/1003739370736816129
+
+Gnon dislikes too much sexual dimorphism!! (HT Hanson) http://www.kokkonuts.org/wp-content/uploads/Kokko.pdf
+
+Any% run: https://www.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/6o3gve/cyberdemon531_makes_a_drunk_idiot_of_herself/dkecra4/
+
+https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/nsw/sex-change-killer-to-be-free-as-a-bird/news-story/b1fecc9a9a4717607de6e980980e0ba5?sv=e95663cd723e2f8ffa0caa3329e03203
+
+"The Masculine Woman’s War on Gender Roles" http://www.ericwulff.com/blog/?p=1861
+
+https://marginalrevolution.com/marginalrevolution/2018/06/sexism-racism-never-diminishes-even-everyone-becomes-less-sexist-racist.html
+
+http://theweek.com/articles/715794/how-single-men-women-are-making-politics-more-extreme
+
+https://twitter.com/goldmansachs/status/747834825831292928?lang=en
+
+C. Clymer roundup:
+https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/991707514294194176.html
+https://mashable.com/2018/06/23/charlotte-clymer-twitter-thread-cuba-libre/#HzX3Kmpl3PqB
+https://www.metroweekly.com/2018/06/transgender-woman-says-she-was-kicked-out-of-popular-d-c-restaurant-for-using-womens-restroom/
+https://twitter.com/ChelseaClinton/status/1010596357093117953
+https://twitter.com/cmclymer/status/1060699882506383360
+
+"It’s officially impossible to find regular real lesbians unless you happen to stumble upon them in the wild ..."
+https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/8mahdy/peak_trans_vii_tell_your_story_here/e1jtuqz/
+
+https://medium.com/@dtwps/all-these-black-characters-and-0-done-right-how-steven-universe-fails-its-black-fanbase-part-i-81e0b0b8c3fe
+
+4 for 4 https://twitter.com/InnerCityFish/status/1015203128885567493
+
+https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/07/08/government-drops-doctor-says-gender-given-birth/?utm_campaign=Echobox&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1531034286
+
+https://twitter.com/_sagesharp_/status/1015755975687430145
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/8xa97t/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_july_09_2018/e228vyj/ "Literally all they have to say is 'I'm not physically attracted to every woman in the world'" (But that's not their True Rejection! Are you really in favor of Universal Socially-Mandatory Lies?!)
+
+https://where.coraline.codes/blog/oscon/
+
+https://www.economist.com/open-future/2018/07/06/changing-the-concept-of-woman-will-cause-unintended-harms
+
+Riley is in the rewriting-her-past stage (just like all the other lesbians, I thought I had to like boys because of heteronormativity—and, "want her or be her" fantasy—only a brief mention that TERFs suck): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H34a-EIzSIs
+
+What moral should we derive from the experience of breaking a condom inside of a Fleshlight?
+It's like running over a pedestrian in a driving simulator
+You'd think it would teach you that such a tiny mistake could have such enormous, life-altering consequences
+Except for the context in which there are no consequences
+
+DSM specifics as historical accident: https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/1023199189046579200
+
+Posie Parker interview: https://auticulture.com/the-liminalist-161-posie-parker/
+
+https://medium.com/@JonahMix/playing-the-intersex-card-3d95bb29ea16
+
+on the internet and tell lies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHrZRJR4igQ
+
+just watched "Return to Tomorrow"—so wait, Kirk _and_ Spock both got to be women??
+
+pity for the secret-sharing squirrels https://cptsdcarlosdevil.tumblr.com/post/176414647498/i-think-a-lot-of-my-relationship-advice-is-deeply
+
+notable for the IRB-servitude if nothing else: https://academia.stackexchange.com/questions/114404/how-to-query-gender-in-a-multiple-choice-poll-survey 
+
+https://twitter.com/compiledwrong/status/994263573512601600 "How long does it take you to stop feeling like a guest in the house after you join a new company?"—when I feel OK about always choosing the female variant reaction emoji
+
+https://twitter.com/turnthetide2018/status/1023959468764213248
+
+http://andrewgelman.com/2007/08/14/more_taboo_rese/
+
+http://www.bostonherald.com/news/columnists/howie_carr/2018/08/howie_carr_jim_lyons_out_pcs_the_democrats The only thing that would make this story more entertaining is if the Democrats bit the bullet and approved every amendment. (Or earnestly debated that e.g. there should be exactly one of "cis female" and "cis woman" &c.)
+
+I should read Li Kung and Hines 2017 https://twitter.com/rftbk/status/1027314120381620230
+
+The Rust survey asks: "If you find it difficult to participate in the Rust community, and feel comfortable giving more details, please tell us what makes it difficult" with the subhead "Optional. Please share only what you are comfortable sharing". I write: "I have some nuanced and detailed views on transgender issues that I suspect might make me a target for exclusion if people knew about them? Mostly this doesn't matter (the community is focused on technology, as it should be), but it does feel slightly sad to be socially incentivized to separate the technology-focused and sociopolitically-focused aspects of one's public intellectual persona (by having a second blog under a pseudonym, &c.) in a way that people with other views probably aren't."
+
+what can go wrong: https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/95z2zj/i_dont_think_im_going_to_my_girls_hobby_club/
+
+Tail pasted a graph from https://www.researchgate.net/publication/7895384_Masculine_Girls_and_Feminine_Boys_Genetic_and_Environmental_Contributions_to_Atypical_Gender_Development_in_Early_Childhood that showed heritable/shared/nonshared bars
+
+https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/
+
+https://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/15/us/target-transgender-idaho-voyeurism.html?_r=0
+
+On Mon, Jun 27, 2016 at 9:11 AM, Zack M. Davis <main@zackmdavis.net> wrote:
+The family resemblance between me and my sister is quite striking (much more so, I think, than the resemblance between us and either parent); we have the same nose, same dark hair that curls into raidus-half-inch helices, maybe similar mannerisms, probably similar cognitive profiles. Unlike me, my sister is socially well-adjusted. [...]  If it's actually the case that one's will is subtly out of alignment with a hypermajority of healthy people in ways that are predictable and causally related to one's medical condition, that might be really disappointing from some grand fun-theoretic universe-design sense, but in the real world where one is not God and everything outside of one's skull is a constant, not being delusional about the degree of alignment might actually be useful in learning how to cooperate better, if mere cooperation is the best we can do.
+
+https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/10/business/media/charlottesville-jason-kessler-npr.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur
+
+Scattered Personal Reflections After a Tech Conference; Or, Smile More; https://rust-lang.github.io/rustconf-2018-keynote/#56
+
+AGP-motivated radfem alignment https://twitter.com/michaelbeltis/status/1032042346450276352
+
+Moldbug's deep rhetorical game: https://theotherlifenow.com/bear-traps/
+
+when social-justice people say that language is "outdated", do they have an idea of what changed? There may be an uncomfortable analogy here to programmers who want to insist on the latest version of everything even when the old stuff still works!
+
+https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/evkwm4/how-to-be-an-ally-to-non-binary-gender-non-conforming-people-support
+
+https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inoculation_theory
+
+----
+
+Extracted from one of my SEXNET posts—
+
+Unrelatedly, Beck et al. note in passing a fascinating finding that I think deserves more examination:
+
+> Gender portrayal seems to vary based on target audience. In genres and channels targeting boys, girls are more likely to be depicted as smarter, less emotional, and more technically savvy (Baker & Raney, 2007; Gerding and & Signorielli, 2014; Thompson & Zerbinos, 1995). Conversely, genres and channels targeting girl viewers depict boys as more emotional and affectionate than do boy-oriented media (Aubrey & Harrison, 2004; Hentges & Case, 2013).
+
+The authors go on to state that "[i]n sum, children's media reinforce gender role binaries and suggest that our culture values strictly delineated gender roles." But left unexplained is why a culture that values strictly delineated gender roles would optimize for portraying girls with masculine-coded virtues in boys' media and boys with feminine-coded virtues in girls' media. (An alternative theory that does predict this particular datum is that media producers are incentivized to cater to children's egocentric fantasies of the other sex's psychology being more like their own ...)
+
+
+-----
+
+Extracted from reply to Ozy on categories—
+
+> Conversely, as far as I can tell, there has yet to be a single transgender NFL football player, while statistically there ought to be five currently playing.
+
+A side note, but—this doesn't actually seem hard to explain. If the ought-to-be-five means MtFs, well, you _can't_ transition MtF and _stay_ in the NFL—HRT is going to kill your performance. Even if you think the effect size of hormones is overhyped, this is a _very_ competitive area, you can't say, "Oh, it only affected performance like ten percent, that's nothing—ten percent is _huge_." This doesn't rule out Jenner-class eggs in the NFL.
+
+And if it means FtMs, well, people get into football as teenagers: there are going to be structural reasons making that difficult even if gynephilic FtMs _are_ the sort of people who would like to play (difficulty of transitioning _that_ early _and_ being stealthy about it, and difficulty of being accepted as one of the guys if you're not stealthy—let alone NFL/NCAA policy about steroid use, if the matter has even come up, which is probably hasn't)
+
+The tone of the video news report here makes me nervous (_deception_ is a crime, but the fetish itself shouldn't disqualify him from being a _crossing guard_) https://www.abc15.com/news/crime/pd-gilbert-man-fakes-down-syndrome-hires-caregivers-to-bathe-him-and-change-diapers
+
+This is basically the _Quillette_ article that I wanted to write: https://quillette.com/2018/09/12/stereotypes-are-often-harmful-and-accurate/
+
+https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ijop.12529
+
+https://lesbian-rights-nz.org/shame-receipts/
+
+Has someone done the game-theoretic microfoundations of radical feminism?
+
+another ROGD referral graph: https://twitter.com/LavenderVerse/status/1042573498592501763
+
+https://www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/news/unisex-changing-rooms-put-women-in-danger-8lwbp8kgk
+
+CoC thread (I donated $10 to the author for this): https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1041668315947708416.html
+https://mobile.twitter.com/unconed/status/1045325718056554498
+
+https://metro.co.uk/2018/09/19/transgender-teen-to-admit-murdering-parents-who-refused-to-accept-her-transition-7960036/
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/8mahdy/peak_trans_vii_tell_your_story_here/e69oh83/
+
+dystopia where all women call themselves nonbinary and men call themselves trans women
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9ejzkm/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_september_10/e64jjos/?context=3&sort=best
+
+https://www.expressnews.com/news/local/article/Transgender-woman-in-San-Antonio-files-13244056.php?utm_campaign=twitter-mobile&utm_source=CMS%20Sharing%20Button&utm_medium=social  "male or female gender should be self-identified and self-reported for the purpose of blood donation"
+
+https://blogs.spectator.co.uk/2018/09/how-i-was-hounded-off-campus-for-saying-women-dont-have-penises/
+
+https://www.econlib.org/you-dont-understand-our-culture/
+
+https://twitter.com/tvandreacross/status/1043603304763351041 made me wonder why I haven't heard "Make it easier to get a GRC, but revoke it as part of the penalty for crimes, especially sex crimes" proposed as a compromise
+
+WTF _Nature_ redux https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-018-06784-5?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+nature%2Frss%2Fcurrent+%28Nature+-+Issue%29
+
+https://law.justia.com/cases/california/court-of-appeal/2017/b263563.html
+
+https://mobile.twitter.com/JamesCantorPhD/status/1012722559874486272
+
+Damore is working again https://twitter.com/JamesADamore/status/1034623633174478849
+
+HSTS doesn't like being asked pronouns https://twitter.com/Kinesis/status/1046485034113220608
+
+Numbers 31:15–18
+
+וַיֹּאמֶר אֲלֵיהֶם מֹשֶׁה הַֽחִיִּיתֶם כָּל־נְקֵבָֽה׃ 
+
+"Have you allowed all the women to live?" he asked them.
+
+
+ וְעַתָּה הִרְגוּ כָל־זָכָר בַּטָּף וְכָל־אִשָּׁה יֹדַעַת אִישׁ לְמִשְׁכַּב זָכָר הֲרֹֽגוּ
+
+Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man,
+
+
+ וְכֹל הַטַּף בַּנָּשִׁים אֲשֶׁר לֹא־יָדְעוּ מִשְׁכַּב זָכָר הַחֲיוּ לָכֶֽם
+
+but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man.
+
+
+What actual women are like vs. feminist power fantasy: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/8tpcyn/culture_war_roundup_for_the_week_of_june_25_2018/e1f67ky/
+https://www.newstatesman.com/culture/2013/08/i-hate-strong-female-characters
+
+reading the famous Flight 93 essay and coming across a scare-quoted "cis-genderism", I want to say, "You mean _cisnormativity_"
+
+my insufficiently-requited love retweeted this: https://twitter.com/EscapologistFi/status/1052650770624118785
+
+http://www.jbhe.com/features/53_SAT.html
+
+Singal on pediatrics society statement: https://twitter.com/jessesingal/status/1052939041069588480 (follow-up for critique of Ozy on ROGD!!!)
+
+https://twitter.com/rachelvmckinnon/status/1053633641161678848
+
+Rachel McKinnon documents say she's a woman https://archive.is/PWmOP https://twitter.com/rachelvmckinnon/status/1053633641161678848
+Rachel McKinnon on her opponents making gender-identity https://archive.is/mmhwU
+
+https://doesnthavetobethisway.wordpress.com/2014/07/19/nametags-pronouns-and-lifting-the-burden/
+
+EUGENICS https://www.wired.com/story/pinterest-skin-tone-search/?fbclid=IwAR27gG2-MZOuYjRBxcZCGK2J4x9rEcrD6rM-8W8H37b5GS5UWJnZEqffUjI
+
+Request for social technology: again, we really need to do something about the problem where civil-and-charitable discourse culture tends to degenerate into "I accept a belief from you, if you accept a belief from me" social exchange, which rewards dogmatic incumbents. (Submissive people trying to be charitable think, "The incumbent didn't respond to my argument! Maybe I'm wrong!" when maybe they should be less submissive and instead think, "The incumbent is being willfully stupid! No update!") So, we know that personal character attacks are bad and need to be quashed. But maybe "arrogance and contempt towards worldviews which I claim have bugs in addition to their already well-known features" is OK? We know that argument NEVER gets bullet. We know that argument NEVER gets personal attack. But a lot of people seem to think that if argument doesn't get counterargument, that means that argument wins. And that's not right! Maybe sometimes argument deserves, "No update, no time to explain; I falsifiably predict that you'll thank me later." Sometimes this prediction will be wrong! But sometimes it will come true eight years later!
+
+("And he cried out, one last cry under the consciousness of Odeen, except that somehow it was the cry of Dua. 'No, we can't stop the market. We are the market. We—'")
+
+"Transsexualism is primarily a type of individual psychopathology. It secondarily acquires the properties of a political or religious movement when individual transsexuals form up into networks."— https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/1056219179399962631
+
+https://www.essence.com/news/16-year-old-black-teen-tells-dr-phil-shes-white-and-hates-black-people/
+
+https://www.thestar.com/news/canada/2018/10/30/transgender-woman-gets-18-month-sentence-for-sexually-assaulting-daughter.html
+
+https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/trans-man-sauna/amp/?__twitter_impression=true
+
+https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-018-07238-8
+
+more Yearwood: https://abcnews.go.com/US/transgender-teens-outrun-track-field-competitors-critics-close/story?id=55856294
+
+https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6179341/Outrage-transgender-child-groomer-legally-female-womens-jail.html
+
+https://www.wweek.com/news/2018/11/07/a-transgender-powells-employee-says-the-bookstore-refused-to-designate-a-gender-neutral-restroom-in-its-corporate-office/
+
+HSTS typology-discovering narrative: https://twitter.com/Kinesis/status/1060452237967675392
+
+https://m.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/UC-Berkeley-campus-senator-abstains-from-a-vote-13378621.php?t=bd81bb94a4#photo-16472734
+
+https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/drunken-transgender-women-stamp-defenceless-13566104
+
+https://truethingsiwishicouldsay.tumblr.com/post/179846906643/this-is-the-new-queer-compulsory-heterosexuality
+
+https://www.adelaidenow.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/midwives-rail-against-proposal-to-call-women-persons-in-new-code-of-conduct/news-story/0c3b37b55934effcfc48498b64a1256f
+
+skeleton sex denialism: https://www.theatlantic.com/amp/article/575536/
+
+medical records: https://twitter.com/HairyLeggdHarpy/status/1062360988702466048
+
+https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/7724502/cop-child-sex-offences-woman/amp/
+
+https://janeclarejones.com/2018/11/13/the-annals-of-the-terf-wars/
+
+http://academicrightswatch.com/?p=2871
+
+https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/canadian-man-claiming-to-be-female-sues-16-women-for-refusing-to-wax-his-ge
+
+Marcus points out that out the "balls-at-12" 5-alpha-reductase people
+
+intersex stats: https://twitter.com/mrkhtake2/status/1063454985147613187
+
+----
+
+unused /r/slatestarcodex comment fodder—
+
+More generally, I'm not sure what to do about the problem of how to _break out_ of the existing Culture War narratives, when you think the reigning narrative is wrong and that you have a better one. The immortal Robin Hanson writes that if you want to make an outsized difference in debates, you sould [pull in a direction that few others are in the high-dimensional policyspace](http://www.overcomingbias.com/2007/05/policy_tugowar.html), but I worry that this model overlooks certain difficulties in _marketing_. If you don't want to join the "trans dykes are good and pure; maximize the number of trans people" coalition _or_ the "trans-identified males are bad men; minimize the number of trans people" coalition, the typical reaction is _not_ that people rally around your [third alternative](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/erGipespbbzdG5zYb/the-third-alternative) in the orthogonal direction, but rather: "Good God you're a fucking unicorn."
+
+Well, I _guess_. But then what's a unicorn to do? I feel _guilty_ about posting too many variants of the same "read [Anne Lawrence](http://www.annelawrence.com/autogynephilia_&_MtF_typology.html)!" comment whenever trans issues come up in the Culture War thread—it feels too repetitive, too agenda-driven. But _given_ an agenda (people should be aware of the true nature of late-onset gender dysphoria in males so that they can use the knowledge to make better decisions, even if I'm not wise enough to specify in advance what those decisions should be) and wanting to pursue that agenda in good-faith and with an absolute minimum of war,
+
+----
+
+Ideally, the Watsonian and Doylist views should be consilient (social-justice people have a Doylist view of Damore et al. as trying to justify male privilige; Scott Alexander et al. have a Doylist view of social-justice as being about victimhood competition)
+
+deep learning can sex your retina: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41551-018-0195-0
+
+http://www.womaninterruptedapp.com/en/
+
+https://twitter.com/plantkid_/status/1065016189980721152
+
+https://medium.com/the-establishment/dont-judge-a-girl-for-what-s-between-her-legs-24f6b6c8cc6
+
+how come I've never heard of this Hogancamp guy on Trans Day of Rememberance? oh, right, AGP erasure: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marwencol
+
+read later: https://medium.com/@juliaserano/refusing-to-tolerate-intolerance-f24c1bff513f
+
+https://www.itv.com/news/meridian/2012-11-15/online-paedophile-jailed-for-14-years/
+
+http://valleywag.gawker.com/twitter-engineer-dana-mccallum-pled-guilty-to-two-misde-1643207780
+
+https://www.philpercs.com/2016/02/autogynephilia-a-critique-and-personal-narrative.html
+
+https://medium.com/@Betsulimo/i-was-one-of-the-transactivists-on-the-channel-4-documentary-i-regret-what-i-did-this-is-why-7e12350ab6d3
+
+https://www.reddit.com/r/itsafetish/
+
+https://www.thestranger.com/slog/2018/11/30/36431918/if-the-future-is-nonbinary-its-a-bleak-one-for-women
+
+"Obviously I socially gender him as male as per his preference."
+
+"I wouldn't call it a 'preference' exactly."
+
+"I gender him male as per his philosophical commitments"
+
+https://www.theverge.com/2014/4/28/5661118/lab-mice-fear-men-not-women-big-problem-for-science
+
+Mad Ouroboros on the Somewhere Else Discord speculates that "don't call me cis" gendercrits and AFAB enbies are having the same internal gender experience
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+CAIS in sport: https://twitter.com/FondOfBeetles/status/1070097483408248835
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+the evolutionarily ancient process of noticing secondary sex characteristics is less legitimate than "Because I said so"
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+https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/zmynd9/stop-gendering-your-baby?utm_campaign=sharebutton