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@@ -65,6 +65,7 @@ https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/9fpWoXpNv83BAHJdc/the-comedy-of-behaviorism
  * as a programmer, I have learned to fear dependencies
 * wipe culturally defined values: https://www.greaterwrong.com/posts/BkkwXtaTf5LvbA6HB/moral-error-and-moral-disagreement (this might have to go after Failed-Utopia #4-2)
 * detachable
+* If I want to stay aligned with women, then figuring out how to do that depends on the facts about actual sex differences; if I want to do the value-exchange suggested in 
 
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/r3NHPD3dLFNk9QE2Y/search-versus-design-1
 https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/JBFHzfPkXHB2XfDGj/evolution-of-modularity
@@ -336,6 +337,11 @@ A culture where there are huge catastrophic consequences for questioning gender
 
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+The real alignment-theory lesson is about : 
+[TODO: the point it about unforeseen maximum, and for the purposes of a dramatic story, it's OK to focus on the big separating hyperplane, even if there are many other hyperplanes]
+[TODO: "Interpersonal Entanglement" suggests a negotiation]
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+
 
 [evolution didn't design women and men to be optimal partners for each other](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/Py3uGnncqXuEfPtQp/interpersonal-entanglement),
 
@@ -391,5 +397,3 @@ Stereotypically, heterosexual marriages tend not to last when the AGP husband's
 In "Interpersonal Entanglement", Yudkowsky had speculated that gay couples might have better relationships, since they don't have to deal with the mismatch.
 
 Stereotypically, AGP-taxon trans women have a tendency to pair up with each other.
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