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 https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0243894
 
 Kohlberg 1966 gender constancy (Maccoby p. 160)
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+"My Son Wears Dresses; Get Over It" https://archive.is/FJNII
+note, "My Son Wears Dresses", and not, "My Daughter Is Trans"
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+The time I told an older boy in summer camp that I wasn't into women with big boobs ... but the reality was that I just hadn't hit puberty yet. A parent in today's ideological environment might transition their three-year-old, thinking, "I don't know what the future holds ... but if she doesn't want to go through male puberty, it would be cruel to force her to." But the kid has no way to _know_ that puberty is going to be terrible in advance (I didn't know what it was going to be like, to like breasts), but if the social environment is grooming the kid to be trans, he's likely to _assume_ it's terrible. When I wasn't doing well at Santa Cruz at first, Mom suggested that I take time off or at DVC, and I said, "Are you _trying_ to sabotage my education?" Because I had been groomed to believe in education.